Also, did I mention that you folks should be reading this blog?

Rick Sincere has made Virginia political bloggers an offer we can’t refuse – anyone linking to this post will be promoted as a must read at a meeting of the Virginia Log Cabin Republicans. Since this is not a very high standard to meet, I have to conclude that Rick’s objective is merely to be entertained by who takes him up on it (which is admittedly mildly amusing).

Rather than a shameless plug for this blog, I prefer to make a shameless plug for the Log Cabin Republicans (you people don’t read this blog already?). Our community would not be able to accomplish anything legislatively in Virginia without the participation of the Log Cabin Republicans. And for their efforts, they not only put up with abuse from the rabid anti-gay wing of their party, but also from some members of the gay community. So cut it out already.

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Vote NO and protect the marriage minority

To be married means to be outnumbered.

Yes, marriage is threatened. Even for those for whom it is legal, many forgo because of the “false security of a wedding ring”. Help strengthen marriage by voting NO this November against Virginia’s so-called marriage amendment and have marriage opened to all so that we can have this strong traditional institution back in the majority.

New York Times
October 15, 2006
By Sam Roberts

Jennifer Lynch, a 28-year-old stage manager in New York, said she had lived on the Lower East Side with her boyfriend, who is 37 and divorced, for most of the five years they have been a couple.

“Cohabitating is our choice, and we have no intention to be married,” Ms. Lynch said. “There is little difference between what we do and what married people do. We love each other, exist together, all of our decisions are based upon each other. Everyone we care about knows this.”

If anything, she added, “not having the false security of wedding rings makes us work even a little harder.”

Read about it all here and ask yourself why the proponents of Virginia’s so-called marriage amendment wish to weaken a noble institution by limiting its benefits to the minority – vote NO and stop their attack on marriage.

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Actions speak louder than words

Since it was introduced in January 2004, supporters of the proposed civil unions and marriage ban in Wisconsin have consistently claimed that it would merely “protect marriage” and not impact legal protections or benefits for unmarried couples. But history tells a different story. In 2004, backers of similar amendments in other states made the same claims. Yet two years later, many of these same leaders and organizations are leading efforts to ensure broad interpretations. The lesson is clear: before Election Day amendment supporters want voters to believe these measures are narrow; after the election, it’s a very different story.

That’s from a report by Fair Wisconsin, the coalition currently working in that state to defeat another so-called “marriage amendment.”

We’ve heard over and over from proponents of Virginia’s Ballot Question #1, like Attorney General Bob McDonnell, that the measure won’t affect private contracts between individuals, won’t be used to deny unmarried partners the provisions of domestic violence law, won’t affect health insurance benefits for anyone, and that really, it won’t change anything at all.

Funny thing: Voters in Wisconsin are hearing those arguments, too – so Fair Wisconsin did a little research and produced a very interesting chart. It compares the assertions made by the supporters of so-called “marriage amendments” in other states before they were passed, with what happened after they passed.

We’ve already reported on the case of Citizens for Communtiy Values, in which this group insisted before the election that concerns about the Ohio amendment’s impact on unmarried victims of domestic violence were “absurd,” only to later file an amicus brief in support of an abusive boyfriend’s claim that he couldn’t be prosecuted under Ohio’s domestic violence statute. His prosecution, CCV argued, violates the Ohio constitution because it recognizes the couple as having a “marriage-like” relationship.

Bait-and-switch, as it turns out, is standard operating procedure for those desparate to pass these amendments. When your true objectives are so unappealing, what else can you do? A few more examples from the report, Actions Speak Louder Than Words:

Michigan voters were told that the amendment had “nothing to do with taking benefits away,” was only to “define marriage,” and that it would have no impact on domestic partner benefits offered by public or private employers. “Every single person currently receiving any kind of benefit would continue to do so,” insisted the Michigan branch of the American Family Association. After the amendment passed? The Michigan AFA filed a lawsuit to stop Michigan State University from offering health insurance benefits to the unmarried domestic partners of employees.

In Ohio, the lead author of the amendment insisted that it would not affect state universities’ domestic partner policies. After the amendment passed? The same individual filed a lawsuit against Miami University to overturn its domestic partner policy, because it “mimics marriage.”

In Louisiana, a chief patron of the amendment said that it “has nothing to do with prohibiting contracts” and would not impact health insurance for domestic partners. After the amendment passed, the Alliance Defense Fund used it as the legal basis for challenging the city of New Orleans’ domestic partner policy.

The director of the Family Foundation of Kentucky said this of the amendment : “We believe that all of the suggestions that people will lose rights or benefits because it has passed are absurd. It is my belief that everyone who has rights and benefits on Nov. 1 will have those exact same rights and benefits on Nov. 3.” After the amendment passed the Family Foundation of Kentucky and lawmakers challenged the right of the University of Louisville to provide health insurance benefits to unmarried partners of employees. They also claimed that the people of Kentucky had voted against such benefits.

More Virginians are awakening to this duplicity every day. Contact the Commonweath Coalition today to see how you can help turn out NO voters on November 7 and be part of making history. 22 days to go.

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Have Republicans had enough yet?

The New York Times tells us that divisive anti-gay so-called “marriage amendments” have lost their power to manipulate the electorate. Pollsters are saying that “people might just be burned out on the subject of marriage and its boundaries,” and that “efforts to stir enthusiasm among conservatives have mostly fallen flat.”

In Virginia, says Republican former North Carolina legislator Ray Warren, Ballot Question #1 gives Republicans a chance to send a message to the extremists who have cost the GOP the governorship (not to mention certain seats in the General Assembly that shall remain unnamed)

The election presents the commonwealth’s long-neglected moderate and libertarian Republican voters with a rare opportunity to challenge the party’s religious extremists without supporting a Democrat.

Warren makes the situation as clear as can be: Thoughtful opponents of same sex marriage have nothing to gain from voting yes, and nothing to lose from voting no.

Same-sex marriages have never been recognized in Virginia, and they have been prohibited by statute for more than 30 years. There is no prospect of the situation changing through legislative or judicial action.

The proposed amendment takes away the right of the people to consider alternatives such as civil unions, and vests the power to decide these issues entirely in the courts.

Conservatives should be deeply offended by an amendment that would grant more power to the judiciary.

Warren also points out something that hasn’t been discussed enough in response to recent amendment apologist claims that “nothing bad happened” following the passage of the 2004 “Affirmation of Marriage Act.” Aside from the fact that the language of Ballot Question #1 is substantially different from that of the statute, and that the statute has already resulted in material harm to people, it is also true that it takes much longer for the full impact of such a law to emerge. Warren explains why it would take years for the negative impact of “the poorly worded prohibition on recognizing “other” relationships.”

Finally, Rick Sincere spells it out for Republicans who are fed up with the recent single-minded focus on below the belt social issues by their party, to the detriment of common sense conservative values. They can go to the polls and cast a vote for every Republican candidate, and also say no to the manipulative pandering that is damaging the reputation of their party.

And they can do both with a clear conscience and the knowledge that both choices are in full accord with time-tested, conservative Republican values of limited government and personal responsibility.

It’s not either/or. It’s both/and. It’s win/win.

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Loudoun Easterner says vote “No”

Another Loudoun newspaper weighs in on Ballot Question #1.

Loudoun Easterner
October 11, 2006

We have just four more weeks until voters go to the polls on Nov. 7. Along with candidates seeking to represent Virginia in the U.S. Senate and Virginia’s 10th District in Congress, there is a state constitutional amendment on the ballot that we don’t really need. It’s called the “Marriage Amendment.” It would require that marriage be defined in Virginia only as the union between one man and one woman.

Virginia Attorney General Bob McDonnell has made a careful study of its wording and says the amendment, if passed, would change nothing in current state law.

The goal of the amendment in fact is to prevent some future state judge from ruling that some benefit of marriage under Virginia law should be extended to a same-sex couple. This begs the question: If two people are living together, as in any common law marriage, regardless of whether the couple is the same sex or not, why shouldn’t they have the same legal benefits and responsibilities of marriage?

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Sounding alarmed

Bryan Scrafford asks whether the scare tactics of Marshall Newman supporters are working.

They certainly are working on a limited subset of the population. What we are finding is that people who say they are voting ‘yes,’ in addition to being in the minority, fall roughly into these two categories:

1) Those who don’t realize that the amendment says anything more than hilarious lies like this would indicate:

This amendment simply states that marriage in VA is between ONE MAN, ONE WOMAN.

When they are clued in to the actual language, these folks often remove the yellow sticker they are wearing (physically or metaphorically).

2) Those who respond to the question “Have you had the opportunity to read the full text of the amendment?” by saying “No. I don’t need to,” or those who respond to the question “Do you realize that this would hurt people?” by saying “Yes. I don’t care.”

There is a finite supply of such individuals.

The decisive question is whether enough of the rest of us will manage to get to the polls on November 7. That depends on you, dear reader. We all must pitch in a little to make sure that happens. Whether that means canvassing your neighborhood, volunteering at a phone bank, handing out literature at a polling place on election day, or simply making sure that the people you come in contact with know why it’s important to you that they vote NO, everyone can do something. The Commonwealth Coalition ad “Burning” is now being shown statewide on cable, but funds are needed to keep it on the air, and possibly move to broadcast TV as well. You can make a secure contribution online right now at www.voteNOva.org or you can send a check to The Commonwealth Coalition, 421 E. Franklin Street, Suite 310, Richmond, VA 23219.

Contact Equality Loudoun and check our calendar for local campaign activities. Had enough of this kind of crap? Don’t get mad, get involved.

As for how well their scare tactics are working, does it mean anything that amendment proponents are saying things like “Sound the Alarm for Marriage Amendment?” They do sound a bit alarmed – one would think that citing that old SurveyUSA poll over and over would be reassuring, but that seems not to be the case.

I believe they know as well as we do: We can win.

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How not to teach sexual responsibility

First of all, don’t pretend that everyone in the world is heterosexual. Since high school students are well aware that this isn’t the case, it’s a good way to lose credibility.

Loudoun County High School yesterday had a mandatory assembly on “abstinence,” presented by self-described “Christian comedian” Keith Deltano. The program was funded by Lifeline Pregnancy Care Center, a faith-based anti-abortion organization in Leesburg. When the assembly was announced, a concerned parent contacted the ACLU, which then contacted the principal.

What concerned the ACLU was the liklihood that such a program, since both the speaker and the sponsoring organization make faith-based arguments for abstinence, would unlawfully impose a particular religious view in a public school setting – for example, Keith Deltano’s website makes reference to “biblical inerrancy” and “God’s plan for sex.” The ACLU asked for assurances that there would be no explicit endorsement of religious views, no promotion of religious books and videos, or of Lifeline materials, and no invitations to off-campus religious events.

Deltano’s presentation did not do any of those things. This is unsurprising when one visits his website, which is divided into “Faith-based shows” and “School shows” sections. He describes the reason for the secular material as the need to present his ideas in a way that permit public funding. The content description of the secular material is exactly the same, only without the overt references to scripture and “God’s plan,” a manuever also noted by the Washington Post reporter who attended.

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