What to do with rude people

Well, it turns out that the Family Research Council video (“Censoring the Church”) promoted by Jay Ahlemann in his last ad (apparently meant to be taken as “evidence” in support of his misrepresentations about the hate crimes bill?) is pretty bad. As one might expect, it’s composed of half-truths, gross omissions, innuendo, and yellow journalism-type associations, all delivered in a tone of grave, you-won’t-believe-this tabloid. You really have to see for yourself the shockingly poor quality of this. It’s insulting to their audience.

It would be impossible (and boring) to list all instances of these propaganda techniques, but here’s one typical example. In describing the current bill that would expand federal hate crimes legislation, the editors introduce the language “…motivated by prejudice based on the actual or perceived race, color, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, or disability of the victim…” without mentioning that the latter three categories are being added to already existing law. They try very hard to make it sound as if “hate crime” is a brand new concept, invented nearly exclusively, as they tell it, for the GLBT community to use to “silence Christians [sic].”

They even go so far as to showcase an African-American minister railing about “these hate-crime people” trying to stop him from preaching, completely erasing from the picture the reason that hate crimes legislation exists. The original 1969 law permitted federal prosecution of offenders who engage in violence or intimidation toward “any person because of his race, color, religion or national origin” because such violence was being used to interfere with federally protected activities like voting and attending school. Hate crimes legislation was instituted to address racist backlash to the Civil Rights Movement – but you would never learn this from FRC.

In order to set up their fallacious premise that hate crimes legislation is designed to “censor the church,” the editors must first make the terms “hate crime” and “hate speech” interchangeable. Then they present “shocking” cases of people who were were supposedly charged with a “hate crime” for merely exercising their first amendment rights. One of these cases is that of David Ott. As he tells his story on camera, one day he happened to see a pro-gay bumper sticker on a car at a service station. Naturally, he therefore decided to approach the driver and “ask him a few questions” and share his views with the man about his “lifestyle.” (Mr. Ott adds that he had just come from a church service where the pastor was “talking about homosexuality, so I was pretty fired up.”) Apparently, Mr. Ott’s attention was unwanted, but he was persistent. He was later charged with harassment.

Another widely reported case is the one in which activists from a group called “Repent America” tried to invade a gay pride festival in Philadelphia. As they tell it, they were facing 47 years in prison for “publicly reading Bible verses.” In actuality, their behavior involved a bit more than this. They berated the crowd using bullhorns, singled out festival attendees for personal insult, disrupted the program, and blocked access to some of the vendors who had paid for their spaces. When ordered by police to move to another area where they could express their viewpoint lawfully, they refused and were arrested. It’s fairly clear that in this case the perpetrators were trying their best to be arrested, in order to generate a legal case that could then be used in exactly the way we see it used here. Some of the charges – specifically, the ones pertaining to their speech – were later dropped (but you would never learn that from FRC, either).

Neither of these cases – and in fact, nothing in this video – has any bearing on the hate crimes bill. But they do raise an interesting question. What stands out about these incidents is their extreme rudeness, a rudeness born of the idea that the perpetrators have special rights. The thinking seems to be this: “Because I have a belief about sexuality, specifically your sexuality, I have the right to say anything I want to you. If you don’t accept that, you’re censoring me.”

Because David Ott has this belief, he felt entitled to accost a complete stranger in public, questioning and lecturing him in the most personal and insulting way imaginable. What sort of self-delusion would allow a person to believe this behavior is acceptable? Ott’s delusion extends to his apparent belief that he did nothing wrong and that he is actually the victim.

Being rude, of course, is not illegal in and of itself. People say rude, inappropriate things to each other all the time, which is why we have Miss Manners. At what point, though, does rudeness such as that displayed by Mr. Ott cross the line into unlawful harassment? I think that’s a legitimate question. Freedom of speech can’t be used as an unlimited shield for people who feel that their beliefs are so special that no boundaries apply to them.

So, what should be done to correct the behavior of people who are this rude without violating their constitutional rights?

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Let’s have the conversation

This letter refers to the article discussed here.

Loudoun Times-Mirror
July 31, 2007
By Jonathan Weintraub, Lovettsville

When the organization calling itself “The Church of the Valley” started a church at the Lovettsville Elementary School, I considered it an opportunity for the residents of Lovettsville to observe the targeting of our community by a Christian Nationalist political movement. It also gave me, a founding board member of Equality Loudoun, yet one more chance to attempt an authentic theological conversation with an anti-gay church over what it means to be Christian and gay.

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A season of sin

I fear that this will prove to be premature given the looming election season, but has anyone else been taken aback by the number of big, honking lies told by local anti-gay activists so far this year?

In just the past four months, we have seen:

Patrick Henry College

April: The administration of PHC distributed a falsified version of Equality Loudoun’s commenting policy, in order to make the specious claim that we don’t welcome disagreement and debate on this blog. The occasion was the Soulforce Equality Ride visit to campus, and the objective was to justify PHC’s own unwillingness to engage in honest dialogue. The misrepresentation appeared in a flyer prepared for the media by the “Office of Communications, Patrick Henry College.”

When students and alumni (who had been reading and commenting on our blog) confronted their administration, the president implied that we had altered our policy after they produced the flyer. According to the Tuesday, April 24, 2007 minutes of the Student Senate, President Graham Walker told them

I don’t rem[em]ber that, and hope I have a copy of their posting policy on the day we quoted it. I’ll look into it.

The students, although they “do not agree with Equality Loudoun’s beliefs or political activities,” do care about truthfulness. They looked into it themselves, and produced proof that this later claim is also false. After pointing out that this kind of misrepresentation is a violation of the school’s honor code and that a student would be punished severely for the same behavior, this group of dissident students asks:

Why hasn’t the College explained the truth of the situation to us – whether this was a mistake or a deliberate misquotation – nor, identified those responsible for drafting and approving this flier for an appropriate discipline, nor extended an apology to Equality Loudoun, the citizens of this community, and the students of this school?

There has been no response yet that we know of.
 

Patricia Phillips

May: In order to smear her primary opponent, state Senate candidate Patricia Phillips falsely attributed to Equality Loudoun a statement made by a local editor two years ago, and misrepresented her own role in the School Board’s adoption of a policy restricting the content of student plays.

Her demand then was the censorship of student voices that acknowledge the existence of GLBT people, and she had this to say of the resulting policy in June of 2005:

“I was very pleased with how it turned out,” said Patricia Phillips of Sterling. Phillips said the policy addressed her main concern, which was for “the normalization of homosexuality to be prevented.”

On the other hand, this is what the Phillips campaign published widely in May of this year, under the heading “Equality Loudoun article in praise of Andrews”:

Fact: As Chairman of the School Board, John [Andrews] crafting (sic) a school policy on school activities that ignored community standards, limited parental control and was praised by Equality Loudoun. Check the facts out for yourself at:
http://archive.equalityloudoun.org/2005/06/22/good-and-ugly

That page links to a Loudoun Times-Mirror editorial, part of our archived material on the play policy. After being confronted by reporters, Phillips started backpedaling, and finally claimed that because the LTM editorial was posted on our website, but not on our “Know the Foe” page, this proves that Equality Loudoun “endorses” its content. Point for creativity, but still wrong.

For instance, this anti-equality letter was posted on our website in exactly the same manner – as a point of information. One would find it difficult, I think, to argue that our posting of this letter indicates our endorsement of it. The Phillips campaign has yet to correct these factual errors or to apologize.

Church of the Valley

June: A new quasi-church/political organization published a full page ad that blatantly lied about the pending Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act (Matthew Shepard Act), claiming that if it becomes law

[I]n the near future, pastors will be subject to huge fines and prison terms if they say anything negative about homosexuality. THE PROPOSED LAW WOULD MAKE IT A CRIME TO PREACH FROM THE PULPIT FROM ROMANS, CHAPTER 1 OR CORINTHIANS, CHAPTER 6.

In fact, the bill is only an extension of existing law, pertains only to acts of physical violence, and contains this passage:

Nothing in this Act, or the amendments made by this Act, shall be construed to prohibit any expressive conduct protected from legal prohibition by, or any activities protected by the free speech or free exercise clauses of, the First Amendment to the Constitution.

The pastor responsible for the ad has been challenged by reporters, editors and members of the public, but no retraction, or even qualification, has been forthcoming.

Barbara Curtis

July: A local blogger who works for Focus on the Family lied about this organization and then refused to publish comments that would correct the record.

She claims to administer her blog this way because she isn’t here to give us a “soapbox,” but it appears to be more that she wants to be able to make things up without any consequences. When I wrote to her in a personal email exchange and asked that she honor my request to correct the record, she got really abusive, really fast.

The sad thing that these incidents all have in common is that the players all aggressively identify themselves as Christians who are speaking from and advocating for a Christian world view. How is it that they justify to themselves the commission of this major sin, seemingly without a trace of shame?

It really does seem to me that they all think there is an unspoken exception in the Ten Commandments: Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor (unless thy neighbor is gay).

Consider this exchange in our comments, starting here. We are discussing the “Ex-gay movement.”

…The problem with the agenda we are discussing, that of advocacy organizations like PFOX, Love Won Out, etc., is that it does not confine itself to advocacy on behalf of its purported constituents. One doesn’t need an agenda to support the right of individuals to choose to have sexual relationships with persons of the opposite sex, whether those individuals are “really” gay or not.

No, this agenda is focused on bullying, lying about, haranguing, punishing, coercing, demonizing, demeaning, and otherwise pressuring other people to also make that choice…

To which Jack replies,

Certainly such actions, if true, are deplorable. It is even more deplorable to lead others into sin [by which he means, I think, accepting or telling them that it’s ok to be GLBT].

This appears to me to be a clear articulation of belief in this exception. What do you think?

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No, really.

This would be worthy of reporting for its sheer entertainment value alone – but wait, there’s more! Purportedly serious organizations like World Net Daily, Concerned Women for America, Focus on the Family, and the Montgomery County anti-sexuality education group Citizens for a Responsible Curriculum have actually linked to this story as if it’s legitimate.

In case you missed it, the story reported by FOX TV’s Bill O’Reilly is that a national network of lesbian gangs whose members carry (I swear I am not making this up) pink 9-millimeter Glocks are terrorizing the innocent heterosexual citizenry of our nation.

Rod Wheeler, a former DC Metro police officer who is now a “Fox News crime analyst,” gives O’Reilly the shocking scoop:

“Well, you know, there is this national underground network, if you will, Bill, of women that’s lesbians and also some men groups that’s actually recruiting kids as young as 10 years old in a lot of the schools in the communities all across the country. And they actually carry a number of weapons. And they commit a number of crimes.”

He goes on to report on the scope of this monstrous scourge right in our own communities:

“We’ve actually counted, just in the Washington D.C. area alone, that’s Washington D.C., Maryland, and Virginia, well over 150 of these crews.”

Surely, these “crews” must be active in Loudoun County – but where is our local defender of all that is decent and virtuous, the director of “Public Advocate of the United States,” the honorable Eugene Delgaudio? If he knew the truth about these rampaging gangs, certainly he would take decisive action. Or at least issue a frothy press release.

What about our candidates for Sheriff? I wonder what they think, for example, of Wheeler’s assertion, when his statements were disputed by law enforcement officials, “that his report was accurate and that any law enforcement officer who disagrees is ‘out of touch.'”

“For some reason or other, these organizations don’t lay it on the line because they don’t know what is going on on the streets,” said Wheeler. “This is a serious crisis and the so-called experts are missing it.”

Ultimately, when unable to substantiate this steaming pile, O’Reilly apologized and Wheeler sheepishly recanted. This, naturally, will not be broadcast in mass mailings to the army of the helplessly uninformed, who are eager to receive any “information” that reinforces their sense of being righteous victims. Therefore, the objective of the lie has been achieved.

How do they get away with it? Rashad Robinson of GLAAD explains:

“The sad truth is that sensationalized, undocumented, fear-driven reports about [gays and lesbians] preying on children are proven to be a ratings winner, and the station managers and news producers know that because they’re reporting about gays and lesbians they don’t have to be as concerned about backing up their sensationalism with actual facts and figures,”

That’s the perspetive from the media side – a perspective due for an earnest reappraisal, to say the least. From the perspective of these self-described “Christian” organizations, there seems to be an unspoken exception in the Ten Commandments: Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor (unless thy neighbor is gay).

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Pastoral care

There’s a fascinating article this morning about last month’s anti-gay church ad and the outrage it engendered in the Loudoun community. For the record, the ad was not submitted to the Times-Mirror.

Ad spurs controversy across Loudoun
Loudoun Times-Mirror
July 25, 2007
By Jana Renn and Matt Van Tassel

An advertisement regarding an act in the U.S. Congress has ignited a local controversy between a church and a gay rights group in Loudoun, calling into question the advertising policies of two local newspapers.

During the last week of June, The Church of the Valley, which has congregations throughout Loudoun, took out an ad in Leesburg Today, Ashburn Today and the Loudoun Easterner with the headline, “Will you ask your Pastor to take a stand against the sinful practice of homosexuality?”

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Notably, Jay Ahlemann’s remarks to the reporter reveal a man so eager to portray himself as loving and accepting of everyone that he is willing to use – perhaps even violate the confidentiality of – individuals to whom he is trying to minister.

“I hugged – physically embraced – a practicing homosexual who is a leader of Equality Loudoun,” Ahlemann said. “I love all people, but I’m not going to stop speaking what the Bible says.”

As we said in an earlier post, and as I told the reporter, we see the appearance of this ad as an opportunity to have the conversation that the administration of Patrick Henry College was unwilling to have. Unlike them, we are not afraid to have a conversation about being gay and Christian, and what the Bible really says. Therefore, an Equality Loudoun board member has been engaged in that conversation with Jay Ahlemann.

Contrary to the image presented here – Ahlemann tries to make it sound as if he has openly GLBT people in his congregations – in actuality he has no experience with or knowledge of the gay community. He admits to never having had a gay friend, and expresses surprise that our board member seems to be just a regular person.

To his credit, he is willing to have this conversation. What we seem to have here is a person who has never before tested his assumptions about our community. It looks like it will be an interesting journey.

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The rest of the story

As the dishonest campaign to defeat the Matthew Shepard Act continues to roll along, we have an update.

One of the tried and true hysteria-generators in this campaign is the citation (with lots of exclamation marks!!!) of various cases in which some brave religious leader is prosecuted for “preaching against homosexuality” …in some other country.

In one of these cases, a straight human rights activist lodged a complaint against the Rev. Stephen Boissoin for writing an (admittedly hateful) anti-gay letter. It is currently being heard before a Canadian human rights panel.

Here is what they are not telling you about this free speech case. In a campaign that accuses the GLBT community of “censoring the church,” this just seems to me to be an interesting piece of information to omit.

It seems that even the national gay advocacy organization EGALE (Equality for Gays and Lesbians Everywhere) is opposed to this prosecution, saying that Boissoin “has a right to express his opinions in the public arena, though it notes it vehemently disagrees with them.”

EGALE must recognize that the most effective approach to hateful and dishonest speech is to counter it with the truth, until such speech is no longer acceptable in civil discourse. And they managed to come to this conclusion even without being subject to our First Amendment.

Go figure.

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Truth wins in Maryland

From our neighbors over in Montgomery County, a good community response to an ignorant diatribe similar to the more florid examples in our Hall of Shame. While everyone has the right to express their opinion, some utterances border on libelous, and certainly are beyond the bounds of civil discourse and the standards of a community newspaper. Nothing screams “bitter, marginalized loser” more than trying to link being gay with pedophilia.

So, the effort led by national AGI groups PFOX and Family Research Council to block the implementation of an improved sexuality education curriculum in Montgomery County schools was handed its final defeat in court. Now the focus of these groups has turned to accusing the School Board and MCPS of viewpoint discrimination. A threat letter sent by the Alliance Defense Fund alleges that literature distributed in the schools by PFOX has been “treated in a discriminatory manner” because some teachers have been vocal about its misrepresentations of fact.

As if on cue, here is what the director of PFOX, Regina Griggs, told an audience yesterday in an interview about Surgeon General nominee James Holsinger:

“The official position of all medical and mental health organizations and the American Psychiatric Association is that there is no biological or genetic cause or replicated study for homosexuality. So, why as a doctor should he not be allowed to interpret and support the fact that change is possible? That’s what medical science says.”

This does not represent a difference of opinion. This is simply a lie.

Here is the actual APA position:

The American Psychiatric Association opposes any psychiatric treatment, such as “reparative” or “conversion” therapy, which is based upon the assumption that homosexuality per se is a mental disorder, or based upon a prior assumption that the patient should change his/ her homosexual orientation.

Furthermore, the APA and other medical and mental health organizations take no position on the causes of variability in sexual orientation. The APA position is in fact the one that Regina Griggs, et al, tried so very hard to prevent from being referenced in the MCPS curriculum.

Trash belongs in the trash can. No one is obligated to treat the material distributed by PFOX with reverence, or to refrain from observing that it is medically and factually inaccurate. PFOX couldn’t force the schools to include their misrepresentations of fact in the curriculum, and they won’t be able to silence educators who point out their misrepresentations of fact, either.

Here is a suggestion for PFOX, and for any other group that feels that their civil rights are being trampled because their opinions are not being treated as the equivalent of medical consensus. Support some students who want to establish an extracurricular club that advocates your viewpoint. All viewpoints must be treated equally in this context, no matter how unpopular or implausible they may be. You will thus avoid the problem of appearing to blur the distinction between opinion and fact, and save yourselves a great deal of trouble.

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