What to do with bullies

Today at 6:30 pm, Kenton Ngo and Johnny Camacho will host a podcast with Kansas freakshow Shirley Phelps-Roper (yep, Westboro Baptist “Church,” God Hates America, the embarrassing step-children that even the hardcore Anti-Gay Industry holds at arm’s length). The call-in number for those who want to participate is (646) 478-5825.

The podcast announcement was met with the criticism that “giving these people a forum for spewing their hate” only encourages them, a version of “if you ignore them, they’ll go away.” The problem is, they won’t. That advice for dealing with bullies doesn’t work in the middle school setting, either.

This is a perennial conversation that occurs when obviously disturbed anti-gay people express themselves in some public venue. Some people argue that the hate speaks for itself, and that engaging the speaker validates it in some way. I disagree, and will just share my comment here:

That’s an interesting question – should such people be ignored? Does ignoring them send the message that they are so fringe as to be inconsequential, or does it send the message that their views are a harmless and acceptable part of political discourse?

We’re dealing with a similar issue right now in Loudoun, in which at least two local newspapers have accepted a paid advertisement from a “church” (actually a political organization that needs to be investigated by the IRS) that is a patently offensive attack on the GLBT community. We had another incident last year in which a letter to the editor crossed the line into libelous statements that invited violence against some of our members. In both cases, we held the editors of the newspapers accountable for the decision to publish material that violates basic standards of decency and non-discrimination.

In both instances there have been individuals who took the position that such ugly speech undermines itself and that the best course is to ignore it. In both instances, I strongly disagreed. I tend to think that people underestimate the real danger of failing to condemn such speech. Ignoring it has an effect – it sends the message that it’s ok, it’s just one of many valid opinions. To me, the issue is not preventing the Phelpses and Ahlemanns of the world from getting the attention they crave, it’s preventing observers from concluding that, since no one opposes such offensive behavior, it must be an acceptable part of the discourse in our community.

“Giving them a forum” in this case could mean validating Shirley – acting as if she has something worthwhile to say – or it could mean giving her the means with which to hang herself. It all depends on how you frame it.

What I mean by framing it is otherwise known as moral leadership. It’s not acceptable to single out a group of people in a community on the basis of a personal characteristic, and attack them. Period. Our Constitution guarantees the legal right to engage in such speech, but that doesn’t make the underlying idea valid or acceptable in civil discourse. There is great power in calling it what it is.

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What were they thinking?

This letter is in response to a full page advertisement that has appeared in some Loudoun newspapers, including the Leesburg Today, Ashburn Today, and Loudoun Easterner. As one reader commented, “When I first saw this ad, I thought it had been placed by Fred Phelps.” We will certainly keep you apprised of where this patently offensive ad was and was not accepted for publication as new information becomes available.

Leesburg Today
June 25, 2007
By David Weintraub
President, Equality Loudoun

Last week, this newspaper chose to accept for publication a full-page advertisement paid for by an organization calling itself “The Church of the Valley.”

The ad made the astonishingly false claim that a bill currently before Congress will “make it a crime to preach from” specific Bible passages, or to “say anything negative about homosexuality.”

Readers with even the slightest familiarity with the U.S. Constitution looked askance at this ridiculous statement, realizing that this can’t possibly be the case.

They are correct. The bill in question, H.R. 1592/S. 1105 (the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act/Matthew Shepard Act), not only applies exclusively to violent physical acts — not speech — it also contains an explicit and redundant clause that reiterates the freedom of religious expression protected by our Constitution.

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Gone too far?

Update: A comment that was posted here pseudonymously accused candidate for Loudoun County Sheriff Greg Ahlemann (Pastor Jay Ahlemann’s son) of being anti-gay and racist, and of having a tattoo that he won’t show to anyone. He asked us to correct the record, since he has in fact shown us his tattoo. Equality Loudoun president David Weintraub sat down with Greg Ahlemann recently and talked about the rumors, the meaning of the tattoo, and some other issues in the race for Sheriff. We will post that interview as soon as time allows, and add the link to it here.

Update 2: Here’s the link to the interview.


Somebody thinks that the gullible class is alive and well in Loudoun County.

Readers who live here may have noticed, in recent weeks, the appearance of full color, full page ads for an organization called “The Church of the Valley” in some local newspapers. In one of the latest ones, they announce their intent to present awards to (posthumously, obviously) Jerry Falwell, Dick Black, and Patricia Phillips, as well as a new arrival named Richard Enrico, the director of an Ashburn outfit called the “Foundation For Moral Restoration” (also of “Operation Save America”)

This week’s ad includes a reprint of an American Family Association “action alert” about the Hate Crimes Bill, and opens with the banner headline:

“Will you ask your Pastor to take a stand against the sinful practice of homosexuality?”

The action alert is a textbook example of the jaw-dropping lie being disseminated by the AGI noise machine:

If pastors and other traditional moral and family value people of all religious backgrounds don’t aggressively oppose a bill now in Congress, in the near future, pastors will be subject to huge fines and prison terms if they say anything negative about homosexuality. THE PROPOSED LAW WOULD MAKE IT A CRIME TO PREACH FROM THE PULPIT FROM ROMANS, CHAPTER 1 OR CORINTHIANS, CHAPTER 6. If churches and individuals want to keep the government from telling us what we can and cannot teach and preach about homosexuality, we better get involved NOW!!

Even commenter Jack, who opposes hate crimes laws and is not exactly a fan of the GLBT community or of this organization, agrees with our assessment of this deceitful behavior. Frankly, it’s so over the top that you would have to be a wild-eyed joke with absolutely no regard for your own credibility to maintain otherwise. Read the actual bill. Also note that the “church” has altered the original AFA action alert that appears on their website to be even more histrionic and ridiculous, changing the conditional word could to would and will in several places.

So what are the leaders of “The Church of the Valley” revealing about what they think of Loudoun residents? Do they assume that we are uneducated or gullible, or are unable to locate the text of a bill? Do they believe that we cannot differentiate between a faith community, and a political organization that openly promotes candidates and party platforms? Where did they come from, and where do they get the funding to run several expensive full page ads each week, week after week? They sure don’t get it from the handful of folks who show up in Lovettsville on a Sunday.

And most importantly, why would any newspaper editor find this sort of lurid ad, one that is not only composed of a well-documented lie, but one that attacks the existence of some of their own neighbors, in any way acceptable for print? If this were an ad for another special prejudice, demanding that pastors “take a stand” against interracial marriage, or school desegregation, or made the claim that Christian children must be protected from “the Jews,” would these same editors have accepted it? What if the copy had read: “Will you ask your Pastor to take a stand against the sinful practice of Negroes riding on public transportation right next to our White Christian Women?”

Not all speech that is constitutionally protected deserves to be in print. Newspapers reject ads all the time because their content is inappropriate or offensive or obscene. This should have been one of those times.

Check your paper.

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Question for the Anglican General Synod, Canada

The Canadian Anglican General Synod will be held on June 19-25. The Synod will choose a new primate and vote on same-sex marriage blessings. This is from The Star. Huchinson is the departing Canadian primate and Harvey is Newfoundland Bishop and spiritual head of the conservative Canadian group Anglican Essentials.

The early church, formed when King Henry VIII broke from Rome, had to be flexible to survive amid acrimony over the split and widely varied methods of worship across Britain, Hutchison says.

“From Day One, it was an accommodation” he says, a trait the church carried with it as it expanded with British colonialism.

But as attendance at home dwindled, it expanded abroad.

Today, more than half of all Anglicans live in Africa, where conservative bishops take a dim view of the liberal churches in Britain, the United States and Canada.

For conservative Anglicans, those bishops, led by Nigeria’s Peter Akinola, are guardians of the traditional Anglican Church.

That point was driven home for Harvey two years ago at a meeting of bishops in Ireland. One of the African representatives told Harvey that the church came to his country largely through the efforts of missionaries from North America.

“Then he said to me, `Now, my brother, we need to go back to North America and remind you what you taught us.'”

Question: What did the Anglican missionaries teach Africans at the height of the slave trade, and why would one want to continue that teaching?

Update – Commenter Jack corrected the record.

The Anglican missionaries from North America, except for a very few, came after the slave trade was ended…

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Phillips campaign continues misrepresentation

Hilariously, the Patricia Phillips for Senate campaign has updated its website with an item entitled “Setting the Record Straight.”

As you can see, Phillips continues to erroneously refer to a 2005 Loudoun Times-Mirror editorial as an “Equality Loudoun article in praise of Andrews”, suggesting that it was our statement. For some reason, she thinks that a screen shot of our page before we added an update exposing her false attribution provides some sort of defense of her behavior. I have no idea why. When her dishonesty was brought to our attention, of course we updated the page with that information. She was lying to the public about our organization.

For the record, Andrews was entirely correct to characterize Phillip’s behavior as “dirty tricks and lies” in his own mailing – but we don’t think much of his characterization of our alleged “praise” as a “slanderous statement.” Feel free to roll your eyes at this; I know I do.

Again, Patricia: Grown-ups admit when they have done something wrong. They do not dig themselves a deeper hole trying to justify their behavior.

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Speaking of speech

In the hate crimes bill comments, Jack has posted a link to a Townhall page about a freedom of speech case, Good News Employee Association vs. Hicks.

This appears to be an unlawful suppression of unpopular speech. As I said in my reply, no one has the right to shut down speech just because they don’t like it. Offensive speech, such as insisting that GLBT people don’t have real families, or as one cluelessly hateful commenter said, that “[gay people] are weeds in the garden of life,” is one thing, while policy or behavior that does tangible harm to people is another. As far as I can see, the anti-gay employee group that filed the lawsuit has only indulged in the former, for which they should be chastised and ridiculed, not banned and silenced. Likewise for the offensive speech by commenters on the Townhall site.

Despicable speech is not limited to anti-gay knuckle-draggers, though. Rick Sincere and Matt Comer both have excellent posts up about the horrible comments directed at an 18 year old activist from the far-righty hate group Young Americans for Freedom (Eugene Delgaudio was once its executive director, back in the day) who recently came out/was outed as gay. These cruel, vicious outbursts are not coming from the anti-gay right, but from some within the GLBT community.

I’m happy to join Rick and Matt in saying that this speech, protected though it may be, is vile. No, the young man doesn’t get a pass for his hypocrisy and contribution to anti-equality causes, but 1) people make stupid mistakes, especially when they’re 18 and trying to figure out who they are , and 2) talking about anyone like this, below the update is inexcusable. Cut it out.

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Great moments in research and development

Yes, this actually happened.

Edward Hammond, of Berkeley’s Sunshine Project, had used the Freedom of Information Act to obtain a copy of the proposal from the Air Force’s Wright Laboratory in Dayton, Ohio.

As part of a military effort to develop non-lethal weapons, the proposal suggested, “One distasteful but completely non-lethal example would be strong aphrodisiacs, especially if the chemical also caused homosexual behavior.”

The documents show the Air Force lab asked for $7.5 million to develop such a chemical weapon.

“The Ohio Air Force lab proposed that a bomb be developed that contained a chemical that would cause enemy soliders to become gay, and to have their units break down because all their soldiers became irresistably attractive to one another,” Hammond said after reviewing the documents.

To their credit (yes, I’m being exceedingly generous), the Pentagon recognizes how inexpressibly stupid this sounds, and is claiming that the 1994 proposal was “quickly dismissed.” Apparently it wasn’t dismissed so quickly that it didn’t make appearances in Joint Non-Lethal Weapons Directorate documents as recently as 2000 and 2001. But at least they’re trying to deny it now, and that suggests progress.

Maybe the Ohio Air Force lab should team up with Dr. Dobson, PFOX, et al, and work on a “straight bomb.” The “Ex-gay” industry could use a boost about now.

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