No room for dialogue

This is a video posted by Equality Rider Matt Hill Comer, documenting the vigil at Patrick Henry College and the reasons for the visit. Students who are being “prepared to lead the nation and shape the culture” could benefit from a little more knowledge about the fellow citizens among whom they will be working and living. It turns out that the PHC students who spoke with Matt were not only embarrassed by the way the college handled the Equality Ride visit, they also “readily admitted that they and their peers would be at an extreme disadvantage when their time comes to enter the ‘real world.'”

Also, we have learned, from a local blogger who is sympathetic to PHC’s position, that the reason given by the Sheriff’s Department for the deployment of 112 law enforcement personnel for the Equality Ride visit was that PFLAG had posted information about the visit on their website.

I’m sure that everyone is aware (sarcasm alert) of the radical and unpredictable nature of PFLAG, the parent and family organization that encourages parents not to throw away their gay children. The aforementioned blogger claims that “these groups” were under no obligation to respect Soulforce’s commitment to non-violence, and even attempted to connect PFLAG to a “history of serious disruption and desecration of churches by gay groups.” This would be somewhat funnier were it not for the desecration of churches by anti-gay terrorists during the campaign to pass Virginia’s so-called “marriage amendment” last year. Here’s the alert from PFLAG that supposedly had the law so spun up. Read it and see what you think.

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Dereliction of duty?

There is much to say about the Soulforce Equality Ride visit to Patrick Henry College, and it will all be said in time. One thing, however, merits some immediate and thoughtful questioning.

It was impossible for anyone to miss the massive show of police force that was assembled on campus, apparently to “defend” it from perhaps 40 people standing quietly in a line, occasionally breaking into song or the reading of a Bible verse. Two individuals engaged in a fully anticipated, symbolic act of civil disobedience, ostensibly to deliver invitations that everyone knew would never reach their intended audience.

This almost comically outsized police presence (Soulforce hasn’t seen anything like this elsewhere) is generating quite a bit of outrage from the community: Who authorized this? Who’s paying for it? According to the Leesburg Today, Loudoun County Sheriff’s Office spokesman Kraig Troxell is going to provide an estimate of what this cost.

When asked about it at the scene, Sheriff Steve Simpson became a bit defensive, claiming that he had “heard things” about groups other than Soulforce coming to Purcellville; there have been insinuations elsewhere that “other groups” were being “bused in,” and that law enforcement couldn’t be sure of what might happen.

Soulforce has visited many campuses. There is a readily accessible, transparent record of what those visits look like. Soulforce is deeply committed to non-violence, a commitment that is readily apparent in all of their communications and actions.

Here is my question, and on behalf of the taxpayers of Loudoun County, I would really like an answer. Clearly, Equality Loudoun was in close contact with the Soulforce Equality Ride as they planned their visit here. If there was any hint of a planned disruption of the Equality Ride vigil by some outside groups, doesn’t the Sheriff’s Department think that we would have heard about it? And if it turned out that we hadn’t, don’t they think that our community should have been told about it?

My understanding is that our Sheriff’s Department practices “community policing.” If they were hearing rumors about other groups planning to disrupt the Soulforce visit in some way, why would they fail to pick up the phone and call Equality Loudoun to see if we knew anything?

If they had any reason to fear for the safety of anyone participating in this event, why would they fail to call the one civic organization in the county that represents the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community? It simply defies reason.

The failure to utilize Equality Loudoun as a community resource in this context is extremely troubling. The massive police presence for a non-violent prayer vigil was indeed an unneccesary waste of resources, and this is what most people care about. But what should be even more disturbing is the failure to effectively engage community organizations and accurately assess this policing situation. If they don’t talk to us, who else might they be neglecting to talk to?

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Differing Views May Collide At Patrick Henry College

Update: Patrick Henry College has dispatched a couple of their professional apologists (one at least seems to have some sort of cozy arrangement involving mutual promotion) to ask “why the mean gay activists won’t leave the poor private Christian college alone.” Here’s a good reason: This PHC student didn’t come up with this sickening nonsense by accident (and of course he is being mocked. Please. Not everyone has the grace of the Equality Riders, after all.) Ask me sometime about why Equality Loudoun was founded, and exactly who isn’t leaving who alone.


I know, confrontation is so much more dramatic than some people sitting down and talking to each other. That could actually lead to mutual understanding and friendship, and who wants that?

PHC president Graham Walker does reveal, in a long letter sent to parents, a “desire to engage” the Equality Riders on the part of the students – one that he is having to thwart. It will be interesting to see how their intellectual curiosity and discontent with his decision plays out.

Leesburg Today
April 10, 2007
By Charlie Jackson

A gay rights activist group plans to hold a press conference at Patrick Henry College in Purcellville Thursday in an attempt to convince the college to change its policies toward gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.

Patrick Henry College, a conservative Christian college, does not plan on welcoming the Soulforce Equality Riders onto campus. College spokesman David Halbrook said the school has requested the presence of town and county law enforcement to bar the activist group from campus.

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Patrick Henry “on lockdown?”

This is just remarkable – a Patrick Henry College student left the following comment on our press release about the Soulforce Equality Ride:

Hi – I AM a PHC student, I found this article through google alerts about my school. How is SoulForce planning on coming to our school if the administration basically has the school on lockdown to prevent any outside visitors from entering that day? They REALLY don’t want you guys on our campus. How are you planning on contacting students? No one would even dare talk to you out of fear we’d be kicked out or scorned by our administration. Also, I guarantee you that no ‘sexually confused’ [sic] students will show up at the White Palace out of fear that the press would snap a picture of them.

Could it be that the administration of PHC is so unnerved by this group of idealistic young people telling their truth that they would actually threaten students with expulsion for talking to them? They REALLY don’t want these conversations to happen, yeah, we get it. This has apparently happened at a couple of the other schools on the route, and is why there is another venue being provided for the students who want to hear and speak for themselves. The press is being told that no photos will be allowed without permission.

We keep wondering why it is that the college does not trust the students enough to hear what the Equality Riders have to say. It would have been a simple act of both academic openness and Christian hospitality to invite them to campus in some manner, have a conversation, and maintain that the college’s “biblical worldview” of human sexuality is the correct one. That appears to be the approach they are taking in hosting a forum with the Rev. John Rankin and the Rev. Barry Lynn on the constitutional separation of church and state. The announcement of this event states, in part:

The goal is not polemics in a debate, but to win honest relationships in the face of cultural debates that otherwise divide people, all in service to the Gospel. A passion for the love of hard questions is always present in John’s forums, where the biblical nature of a level playing field is employed. John operates on the premise that all debated issues should be equally heard and is confident that in doing so the truth will rise to the top.

Instead, they are treating the Equality Riders – many of whom are fellow devout Christians – as if they are a dangerous invading army, sending a histrionic three page letter home to “warn” parents, and erecting a virtual Berlin Wall around the campus. Why do they seem so afraid of the truth rising to the top in this case?

In order to justify their disparate treatment of the Equality Riders, the college has incorrectly characterized the mission of the group as something other than seeking dialogue – in a press release posted yesterday, Chancellor Mike Farris claims that the intent of Soulforce and the Equality Ride is to “shut down,” “silence” and “neutralize” PHC’s freedom of speech “to uphold biblical convictions on sexual morality.”

He does not explain how engaging the world in debate, and truly listening to and considering the opinions of others (as stated in PHC’s own mission statement) would result in the college’s “silencing” – because of course it wouldn’t. In what sense do the Equality Riders or anyone else have the power to silence the speech of Patrick Henry College? Such a statement is transparently silly, and should embarrass the students who enrolled there expecting to receive a classical education. This sort of flamboyant overreaction to the marketplace of ideas is the reason that Farris was forced to step down as President of the college last year, and the reason for the ongoing difficulties retaining faculty (fully one half of the faculty resigned in 2005 in protest over the lack of academic freedom), and the formation of this dissident alumni group.

This is beginning to look less like a lockdown, and more like a meltdown.

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Equality Ride visit to PHC

NEWS RELEASE

SOULFORCE EQUALITY RIDE TO VISIT PATRICK HENRY COLLEGE
– Equality Loudoun invites opposing sides to reception for dialogue, reconciliation –

(Leesburg, VA 5 April, 2007) — Equality Loudoun reported today that the Soulforce Equality Ride is planning a visit to the campus of Patrick Henry College in Purcellville on Thursday, April 12. Patrick Henry, like many Christian colleges, enforces a strict code of conduct that bans the enrollment of openly gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender students. The Soulforce Equality Riders are a diverse group of young adults, many of them gay and allied evangelical Christians who are alumni of such schools, on a two month tour of colleges during which they hope to initiate honest dialogue about faith and sexuality.

Robin Reynolds, the Equality Ride coordinator of the Patrick Henry visit, has been in contact with the school’s administration hoping to arrange a structured opportunity for dialogue. Although this has happened at some of the other schools on the tour, the administration at Patrick Henry has so far not extended such an invitation. The Riders will continue seeking ways to engage the students, faculty and administration in honest, open conversation, Reynolds said.

“Sexual orientation has nothing to do with a person’s religious faith or upbringing. Whether or not the administration knows it, there are students at Patrick Henry who are keeping a terrifying secret.” said Equality Loudoun president David Weintraub. “All that the Equality Riders are asking for is an opportunity to testify to the harm done to them by the message that they are broken and unworthy because of who they are.”

Following a breakfast hosted by a Purcellville family, the Equality Ride bus will arrive at the Patrick Henry campus for a press conference at 10:15 am.

“I am a child of God who loves God, and I now know that God loves me just as I am and welcomes me to the table,” said Reynolds. “It’s critical that the students at schools like Patrick Henry hear that affirming message ““ that we are all welcome at God’s table.”

Even if the college refuses to engage in dialogue, Equality Loudoun is welcoming both the Equality Riders and the Patrick Henry College community to an evening reception at The White Palace Restaurant.

“For so many in the gay community, Christianity has come to represent nothing but hatred and condemnation. For many of the Patrick Henry students, it seems that they’ve only been exposed to the idea that gay people are evil and dangerous,” said Weintraub. “We have our work cut out for us to just be able to look at each other, face to face, as fellow human beings, and have a conversation. If we can make that happen even for a few individuals, that’s a start.”

“The ability to engage the world in debate requires us to truly listen and consider the opinions of others, while never compromising our commitment to God and His Word” – from the mission of Patrick Henry College

The reception is free and open to all, and will include a presentation by the Equality Riders about their experiences.

7:00 pm
The White Palace Restaurant
101 N 21st Street
Purcellville, VA 20132

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Writing the Next Chapter

The wishful thinking from Victoria Cobb, Bob “Virginia’s chief homophobe” Marshall, et al, continues. One almost feels embarrassed for them.

“This issue is dead in Virginia,” Cobb told the Richmond Post-Dispatch, speaking of civil unions. “People in Virginia stated very plainly that they don’t want it to happen here.” Really? Because advocates of the Marshall/Newman amendment sure did work hard to pretend that it was “only about marriage” and conceal its actual meaning from voters. A new poll released today by the Equality Virginia Education Fund may help put this Pyrrhic victory (one that elicits curious remarks like this one) in perspective.

Writing the Next Chapter; Virginians Still Support Basic Rights for All Virginians

(Monday, April 9) — On April 14th, Equality Virginia will hold its 4th annual Commonwealth Dinner at the Richmond Convention Center where nearly 1300 are expected to gather. The keynote speaker at the dinner will be Congressman Barney Frank, the first openly gay member of the U.S. Congress and now Chair of the Financial Services Committee. The theme of the dinner is Writing the Next Chapter, and the evening will be dedicated to celebrating the progress being made toward EV’s goal of full equality for all Virginians, even with the recent passage of Virginia’s so-called “marriage amendment.”

Underscoring the reasons for optimism are the results of the post-election statewide poll released by EV’s Education Fund today.

The poll shows that a majority of Virginia voters (55%) continue to support civil unions, while 85% support protections against workplace discrimination, regardless of party or geography. There is also continued strong support for added protections for inheritance rights (73%) and hospital visitation rights (92%).

“The results of the poll show conclusively that, despite the millions of dollars spent on anti-gay messaging by amendment proponents, the overwhelming majority of Virginia voters continue to support extending basic civil rights to all gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Virginians, ” said Dyana Mason, Equality Virginia’s Executive Director. “This is a very positive message, particularly in light of some of the negative rhetoric in the 2006 campaign cycle.”

“We will be working hard during this election cycle to use these poll results to remind candidates why they should support legislation that would afford GLBT Virginians protection against workplace discrimination and extend access to health insurance benefits, basic civil rights that voters recognize all Virginians deserve to enjoy equally,” said EV Political Committee and PAC Chair, David C. Lampo.

The poll, commissioned by the Equality Virginia Education Fund, the research and education arm of Equality Virginia, was conducted by the bi-partisan team of Schapiro Group and Fabrizio-McLaughlin in February 2007. It asked the same questions as a previous poll done statewide in December 2005. The differences in results in the two polls are within the margin of error and are statistically insignificant.

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Tired of riding in the back of the bus

An excellent letter in response to this one, in which the apparently self-centered and uninformed author suggests that our community should willingly accept second-class citizenship so that people like him don’t have to question their comfy beliefs. Wtf? Thank you, Heyward.

Loudoun Times-Mirror
March 20, 2007
By Heyward Drummond, Aldie

I read with great sadness the opinion piece by David P. Weiss on March 7 [“Securing our cultural cornerstones”] in the Times-Mirror. He writes that because the perceived majority population believes a certain way, then that should rule all of our lives. He suggests that gay people should selectively choose their career choices so that they only take jobs that won’t bother other people. I suppose he thinks gay people have “chosen” their self-centered way of life, and they should then expect second-class treatment. Being gay is not a choice anymore than one chooses to be left-handed. None of my doctors and counselors or ministers has ever said they can “cure” my orientation of my entire 53-year life, so please stop with the ignorant implication that this is a choice.

Those of us among the millions of gay people in this country don’t have the right to marry our life partner except in one state [Massachusetts]. We don’t enjoy the equal protection under the law that straight people do. We are required by law to pay equal taxes, but not experience the equal enjoyment of the protections and rights that others take for granted. Our pensions are not protected from being confiscated upon death, unlike our married friends.

If I followed Mr. Weiss’ thinking, I would be expected to just pay the taxes, support schools attended by my neighbors’ kids, support the military when they openly discriminate against me and encourage bigotry, send wedding gifts to my straight relatives and friends but never enjoy receiving their gifts at my wedding (since I’m not supposed to expect one in my lifetime). Sorry, my long-term partner and I are tired of riding in the back of the bus and real tired of hearing people like Mr. Weiss tell me to shut up and stop expecting equality.

Please don’t blame gay people for threatening the institution of marriage, while many straight friends and relatives have multiple divorces under their belts. Divorce is the problem, and not my wanting to get married that threatens society.

Please don’t blame gays for wanting to participate in society as a whole so the rest can feel more comfortable. Bigotry remains a horrible disease and it comes in many forms. If we allowed bigots to rule the kind of rights we all should enjoy, then there are many groups in the U.S. that would still enjoy second-class status. Virginia has a particularly horrible history regarding bigotry.

Please don’t tell me I should not speak up when I see something very wrong. Having been the recipient this past summer of an attempted arson and hate crime to my home in Aldie, it is quite hard to explain how angry Mr. Weiss’s statements made me. His belief that gay people should just shut up and put up with second-class status encourages the kind of insane hate that caused extreme damage to my property and poured gasoline all over the front lawn up to the front door. I’m sure Mr. Weiss would be outraged if the word FAG was painted all over his street and yard and his many trees all cut down.

If I can’t get equal treatment under the laws, then I think Mr. Weiss and others like him should volunteer to pay my taxes since they enjoy rights I am not supposed to have.

Is it worth chipping away at the cornerstones of our culture’s foundation – hate, discrimination and lack of respect for others – just for the benefit of a few million gay people? For the sake of our future, I hope we as individuals and as a society dedicated to spreading freedom and equality throughout the word, I hope that it is.

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