I’m lovin’ it

McDonald’s does it again, sputters the action alert headline from the American Family Association’s Don Wildmon.

What is it this time, you ask? Well, apparently McDonald’s sponsored and purchased a half-page ad in the program for a 2007 Summit on workplace equality. (Pssst. Mister Wildmon, you’ll want to direct your crack team of investigators to check out the sponsors of Out & Equal’s 2008 Summit, coming up in September. McDonald’s did it again. Also, we sure hope that none of those action alerts are issuing forth from Dell computers.)

So what’s the problem? Wildmon explains: “One of [Out & Equal’s] primary purposes is to train employees how to aggressively promote homosexuality within the company they work for..”

Strange. I’ve searched Out & Equal’s website, and I can’t find anything about aggressively promoting homosexuality or any other orientation (it seems to me that “promoting” any naturally occurring human attribute would be a waste of time, anyway. Why bother?) Maybe one of our readers will have better luck locating it. Here’s what Out & Equal actually says:

Our mission is to educate and empower organizations, human resource professionals, Employee Resource Groups and individual employees through programs and services that result in equal policies, opportunities, practices, and benefits in the workplace regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity, expression, or characteristics.

Sounds like a pretty reasonable idea. Wildmon must think so too, or he wouldn’t need to claim they’re doing something else. He also says this:

At the bottom of McDonald’s half-page ad in the Out & Equal Summit booklet is this statement: “From neighborhood to neighborhood, coast to coast and around the world, McDonald’s is proud to celebrate diversity” (homosexuality). [Yes, the parenthetical is actually in the original, exactly as shown.]

I’m not sure which dictionary Mr. Wildmon is using. Mine defines “diverse” as:

1 : differing from one another : unlike, i.e., people with diverse interests; 2 : composed of distinct or unlike elements or qualities, i.e., a diverse population

“Diversity” is defined as:

1: the condition of being diverse : variety; especially : the inclusion of diverse people (as people of different races or cultures) in a group or organization; 2: an instance of being diverse

My dictionary does not suggest “homosexuality” as a synonym.

Here are some other randomly selected lines from Out & Equal’s 2007 program ads, as perceived by the brain of Don Wildmon. I believe they speak for themselves.

“Homosexuality – essential to creating the magic at Disney.”

“We’re proud of the homosexuality of our people; after all, it’s what makes USAirways fly.”

“At KPMG, homosexuality of gender, race, ethnicity, ideas, lifestyles, professional insights and personal perspectives are what we value most about our employees.”

“Homosexuality is inventive. Homosexuality is Johnson & Johnson.”

“Genentech is dedicated to fostering an environment that is inclusive and encourages homosexuality of thought, styles, skill and perspective.”

“At GlaxoSmithKline, our commitment to homosexuality drives our recruitment of employees who represent all people within society, including women and ethnic minorities.”

“Motorola: It all begins with a homosexual workforce committed to developing exciting, innovative products.”

“At Wachovia, we take pride in being part of many vibrant, homosexual communities across the country. And each day we strive to sustain a culture where all individuals are treated fairly and with respect – where each of us can reach out to achieve the possibilities in our lives.”

“Putting homosexuality at the very center of our ethos, and placing MasterCard Worldwide squarely at the heart of commerce.”

“At MetLife, we believe that workforce homosexuality is good for business.”

“The strength in Dow’s workforce comes from homosexuality.”

“At Best Buy, we are committed to having a workforce that is as homosexual as the communities we serve.”

And many, many more. The sheer magnitude of products and services that dyed-in-the-wool anti-gay obsessives will be required to boycott must be enough to drive them around the bend.

Please bear in mind that Wildmon’s AFA is the organization that reported the following, because they thought it would be a good idea to change every instance of the word “gay” to the word “homosexual” in their news feeds:

Tyson Homosexual was a blur in blue, sprinting 100 meters faster than anyone ever has..

“It means a lot to me,” the 25-year-old Homosexual said. “I’m glad my body could do it, because now I know I have it in me.”

To be credible, we need to be as accurate as possible when articulating an opposing viewpoint. Like so many actors in the anti-gay industry, Wildmon doesn’t even try. How else to explain his description, in the same action alert, of a lobby visit as “an organized march into congressional offices”? Doesn’t the AFA lobby for positions they favor, and encourage their supporters to do so? Would they describe their own lobbying activities as “an organized march”? Why use disingenuous language like this? Why make claims that are demonstrably false, and use common words in a way that makes you sound like an idiot?

Unless credibility is no longer even an option, and the only audience being addressed is so far outside the mainstream that it doesn’t matter what you say to them.

As one reader said about this latest AFA missive, “Somewhere, young William is sharpening his pencil for another letter to the editor. Meanwhile, the folks at the drive-through window are beginning to recognize me.”

I’m going to McDonald’s.

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A new Loudoun County Republican Committee?

Russell Muños, Vice President of Equality Loudoun and member of the Log Cabin Republicans of Virginia, and Jonathan Weintraub, Equality Loudoun co-founder and board member, attended the recent Loudoun County Republican Committee (LCRC) ice cream social at the Lansdowne Potomac club. (In the interest of full disclosure, Jonathan is also a member of the Loudoun County Democratic Committee.)

It was a refreshingly pleasant event. Our visit followed a recent post about the efforts of the LCRC to change its image. The prominence in the committee of anti-gay ideologues and their agendas was part of what led to the founding of Equality Loudoun back in 2003, and as we said in the previous post, “we would be delighted by evidence that this has changed, and that our Republican members can fully participate in their chosen political party at the local level.”

The hosts for this event were Roger Zurn (Loudoun’s Treasurer) and Robert Wertz (Loudoun’s Commissioner of the Revenue). I spoke with both of them. To my knowledge, they are members of the moderate wing of the LCRC. When we arrived, we also met Glen Caroline, the new chairman of the committee. He was very friendly and welcoming, as were most of the people I spoke with. Oddly, he didn’t seem very aware that the committee has had a problem with the GLBT community.

There were people associated with the openly anti-gay, “social conservative” wing of the committee in attendance as well. Failed State Senate candidate Patricia Phillips, formerly the state director of Concerned Women for America, who was instrumental in creating the “controversy” over the student play Offsides, and actively gay-baited her primary opponent was there, as was Mark Sell, a close associate of professional gay-basher Eugene Delgaudio.

It must make these types uncomfortable to see people greet me and ask how David is, when they believe that our marriage is “an abomination.” Sell managed to tell me that a gay person would be welcome to “work for Republican candidates,” and that the committee doesn’t care about anyone’s personal life. I take this to mean that advocacy within the committee for the individual liberties of GLBT persons – or even being out – would be an unwelcome introduction of one’s “personal life.” The anti-gay activist wing fails to see the irony of this position. We’ll just leave it at that.

Others active in the committee were more attuned. In particular, LCRC Secretary Mary Gail Swenson pulled Russ and me aside and tried to recruit us both. She warned that although some members of the LCRC would object to a membership application from an openly gay citizen, she assured us that she would advocate for the applicant and would not tolerate discrimination. Her stand may give pause to the more rabid elements, who have been deposed from leadership positions, but are still present and vocal in their attacks on our community.

Russ had a casual conversation with a woman who he believes heckled Equality Loudoun at the 2007 Leesburg 4th of July parade. She wanted his input on how to bring young voters into the LCRC. He suggested that we “must learn to speak their language,” to which she replied “you mean we have to support Ludacris?” No, he tried to explain, it’s just that the things that matter to 20 year olds are different from the things that matter to older people. She seemed not to have any idea what this could mean, giving him a funny blank stare.

As I was leaving, I met Matthew, a representative from the Republican Party of Virginia. I explained that I was there representing Equality Loudoun, and that the LCRC has been hostile to the GLBT community in the past, severely limiting participation. I related to him the story of the 2003 LCRC meeting to which School Board candidates were invited to seek endorsement, and how that meeting was derailed by Patrick Henry College student Eve Marie Barner’s ridiculous resolution demanding the reversal of the Supreme Court ruling in Lawrence v Texas. Matthew seemed interested to learn about these things, and said that he’d add the inclusiveness problem to the list of items he would discuss with Glen Caroline.

I was somewhat heartened. It appears that the mainstream is making an effort to take back the LCRC (which I have to admit, as a Democrat, is a bad development.) As a member of the GLBT community, it’s a great development. Life’s not always black and white. I hope that Glen’s leadership can put an end to the irrational anti-gay bias that has tarnished the LCRC, and the committee can concentrate on the issues that matter to everyone regardless of who they love and what their family looks like. When using our community as a wedge issue no longer works at the local level, it will no longer work at the national platform level either, and the direction taken by this local committee depends on who shows up and makes their voices heard. Good luck to the LCRC!

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Magic 8

The notes taken by an apparent infiltrator on the July 30 conference call between anti-marriage pastors and leaders of the anti-gay right include this action plan for campaigning against California’s Prop 8:

The campaign’s volunteer recruitment is built around an “8 for 8” theme, asking pastors to recruit 8 other pastors for next month’s call. Among action items for pastors:

Urge people to pray 8 minutes every morning and evening at 8 for passage of Prop 8; Urge people to enlist 8 other people to join 8 for 8 plan; Give at least $8 to protect marriage.com for each member of the family, or $88, or $888; Starting on 8/8/08, begin to volunteer, offer services of work 8 hours for the campaign; Send a note of encouragement to at least 8 other pastors who are standing for marriage; Register at least 8 other people to vote – get 8 other people to apply for permanent vote by mail; Contact 8 families and ask them to participate in the family voting weekend

Today, Janet Parshall (of Janet Parshall’s America) was discussing the opening ceremonies of the Beijing 2008 Olympic Games, specifically the fact that they began precisely at 8:08, 08.08.08:

Those people think there’s some magic involved in those numbers…when you don’t believe in God, I guess you have to believe in superstition.

How could you, Janet? How could you?

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Way to go!

We couldn’t have asked for a better accompaniment to our letter (see below the fold) this week to the Purcellville Gazette, thanking the editors for publishing “A Boycott,” the letter by young “William A.”

We conclude by saying that if the letter “had not been published, community members would not have been informed about the increasing extremism of what we call the ‘anti-gay industry.’ We would have missed the opportunity to have this public conversation, which is a valuable one.”

As if on cue, the next letter perfectly showcases that extremism. With claims that “the gay perversion agenda” is to “teach homosexual practice to 1st graders,” and the equation of GLBT people to “pedophiles,” “thieves,” and “welfare whores,” we couldn’t have written a better illustration if we’d tried.

The writer is Ranjani Johnson, who is very active with the LCRC (guess which faction) and the Lovettsville branch of Jay Ahlemann’s Church of the Valley (the church that ran the full page anti-gay advertisements last year). Some readers may remember the 2006 election day story of a woman who had to be repeatedly admonished by the election official for violating the posted Board of Elections rules; she was allowing her several children to chase voters to the door with pro-Marshall/Newman Amendment literature, and having them say “vote for Jesus!” That was Johnson.

She seems annoyed because the “American Psychiatric Institute” (along with all other mainstream medical and mental health associations) no longer agrees with her belief that “homosexuality is the product of a sick mind.” They have “changed with the times,” she says. Yes, that’s generally what evidence-based institutions do. They continually adopt new positions that reflect greater knowledge. Medical associations “changed with the times” when penicillin was discovered, too.

Johnson also believes that it’s “natural” for a child of William’s age to agree with her views, and that such visceral discomfort with GLBT people as she seems to be burdened with “doesn’t need to be taught.” That of course isn’t the case at all; homophobia must be “carefully taught,” as the song says. That’s why such hysteria ensues among the anti-gay set at the appearance of a book about penguins, and why a Massachusetts parent tried to require that his child’s classmates be prevented from talking about their own families at school. In fact, the parents in the Massachusetts case explicitly made the argument that they fear their own inability as parents to counter the exposure of their children to different kinds of families. Their lawsuit was predicated on the claim that the school district is failing to accommodate their efforts to carefully teach their children to share their aversion to gay people.

The idea these parents are trying so urgently to teach is extremely fragile, precisely because it is a construction. It does not reflect reality. This is one of those interesting areas of anti-gay “thought” wherein logical consistency falls by the wayside. Here we have Focus on the Family demagogue James Dobson giving advice about the necessary “training” in gender identification:

Meanwhile, the boy’s father has to do his part. He needs to mirror and affirm his son’s maleness. He can play rough-and-tumble games with his son, in ways that are decidedly different from the games he would play with a little girl. He can help his son learn to throw and catch a ball. He can teach him to pound a square wooden peg into a square hole in a pegboard. He can even take his son with him into the shower, where the boy cannot help but notice that Dad has a penis, just like his, only bigger.

In Dobson’s world, children have to be carefully taught to be boys and girls. In Ranjani Johnson’s world, the idea that it’s normal and natural for some people to be gay or transgender is something from which she feels she must “protect” her children. Why? If particular gender behaviors and the idea that gay people are “sick” are natural, then why is it necessary to exert so much effort to enforce them?

We eagerly await the answer.

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Marriage equality: A way in

First, please forgive me for sharing this bit of unintentional humor. In the midst of a recent (yay!) substantive discussion about the meaning of the much-abused term “conservative,” a commenter who goes by the handle “t” (that’s supposed to be “cross,” not a lower-case t; he fancies himself a Christian) intruded with this:

Excuse me, Jonathan, but what would a homosexual comprehend about spousal rights?

“t” is of course absolutely correct; in all but two states, the experience of gay partners would be more in the area of spousal responsibilities. Still working on the rights part, thanks.

This hot “culture war” topic is the subject of an editorial – Gay marriage: A way out – in Monday’s USA Today, arguably the very middle channel of the mainstream. What is presented here – separating the civil from the religious union – is not exactly a novel idea; the significance is in where it appears, presented as an eminently reasonable compromise:

Liberal-minded Americans should like this proposed arrangement because everyone gets treated the same, and the state deprives no one of his or her rights based upon sexual orientation. If a gay couple is denied the right to marry, it would only be because their religious community denied it, in which case they could turn to a church or synagogue that would consecrate their marriage.

Conservatives should like the arrangement because religious institutions will not be forced to recognize relationships that they feel are contrary to the teachings of scripture. Nor will they be forced to call something “marriage” that to them plainly isn’t. At the same time, the proliferation of domestic partnerships would create more familial and financial stability.

What’s not to like? Discuss.

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Why do anti-gay activists hate capitalism?

When we first saw this letter in the Purcellville Gazette (from “William A., age 10”) it brought to mind another western Loudoun family in which the adults use children to promote their own anti-gay proclivities. In one instance, two young siblings were dressed up as a “bride” and “groom” to illustrate their parents’ disdain for same sex couples and marriage equality. My guess is that these two families have a relationship, as the parents seem to have similar notions about the use of their children for this purpose.

A Boycott

McDonald’s Corporation has been supporting the gay society. I don’t think that what they are doing is right. Homosexuality is wrong. I am not going to spend my money on their food anymore. I don’t think anyone should spend their money at McDonald’s because what they are doing is bad for our society.

I’m asking everyone who agrees with me to participate in a boycott with me until September 1, 2008. I am collecting signatures of people joining me in the boycott. You can also join a boycott on line at AFA.net.

William A. (age 10), Round Hill

The response to this letter has been remarkable, and can be summed up, more or less, as “that poor kid.” Everyone recognizes that the children in these situations are not to blame; objections are to the behavior of the parents.

In addition to this week’s editorial (those who bring us the Purcellville Gazette were “disturbed” by the letter, and suggest that young William find something to do of his own choosing instead), there are nine letters to the editor from people who find this parental behavior troubling. My personal favorite is the one that quotes these infamous lines from South Pacific:

You’ve got to be taught to hate and fear, you’ve got to be taught from year to year, it’s got to be drummed in your dear little ear. You’ve got to be carefully taught…You’ve got to be taught before it’s too late, before you are six or seven or eight, to hate all the people your relatives hate, you’ve got to be carefully taught!

You can read all the letters and the editorial below the fold.

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Framing us as “the enemy”

Update: How could I have neglected to include the violent rhetoric of Manassas blogger Greg Letiecq in my sample? Incredibly, Letiecq made this statement shortly after the murders in Knoxville. Thank you, Bruce Roemmelt.

You can ultimately herd leftists no more easily than you can herd cats, unless of course deadly force is on the menu of coercive methodologies that can be employed.

While I take issue with the completely partisan framing of this piece by Richmond Democrat (there are many, many Republicans who do not participate in the sort of violent rhetoric cited here, and do not at all appreciate their party being soiled by it; there are also many sites at which self-identified Democrats exhibit uncivil and polarizing language which we have condemned), he is absolutely right that the demonizing language employed by certain elements of the hard right is fully intended to marginalize those with whom they disagree as ENEMIES – enemies of the state, of the family, of God, of civilization itself – and that the consequences are sadly predictable. And yes, those responsible Republicans need to quickly condemn this violent rhetoric to avoid being complicit in its result. Or, as Leonard Pitts, Jr. asks, “is accountability yet another lost conservative value?”

RD is relying heavily on a March 2008 analysis by Jeffrey Feldman of Frameshop, in which he identifies the emerging Republican election strategy (utilizing pundits like O’Reilly, Savage and Coulter):

Through this effort, the right has framed our entire system of politics through a logic of violence, the result of which is that Democrats and Liberals are not just seen as political opponents to Republicans, but as a collective mortal threat to the continuing existence of America.

The language is the language of warfare, specifically drawn from the “war on terror.” Within this very deliberate framing, an opponent of the so-called “conservative” agenda such as an anti-war protester becomes a “domestic insurgent” in an action alert entitled “Fighting the Insurgency at Home”; the intended reader is urged to join his comrades in “securing the area,” and bring signs reading “stop treason.” Is it any wonder that Jim David Adkisson thought he was fighting a war in which he had to kill “liberals” after consuming a steady diet of this garbage?

The “warfare” metaphor is, of course, very familiar to the GLBT community. “Culture war” has been the framing strategy of the anti-gay right for a long time, repeating ad nauseam some version of the claim that uppity “homosexual activists” pose a threat to the continued existence of civilization. In this frame, it is inconceivable that we would experience the same human desire for family, intimacy and security as everyone else; our pursuit of marriage equality can only be explained as “the enemies of our souls…trying to sweep away the very moral foundation of our country,” in this chilling “call to arms” from the Tennessee Eagle Forum.

As their losses in courts and legislatures mount, the rhetoric of anti-gay activists becomes ever more laced with violence and war metaphors. An increasingly deranged science fiction author calls for overthrowing the government “by any means necessary” to “defend [his notion of] marriage”; in a recent strategy call with fundamentalist ministers, leaders of the anti-gay industry describe the three 2008 state constitutional amendments to prohibit marriage equality as “warfare against Satan,” Loudoun’s Chuck Colson names California’s Prop 8, the main focus of the call, “the Armageddon of the culture war,” and the pastor of Cornerstone megachurch howls “we must be consumed with a holy anger…this is the time to fight!” And of course, Loudoun’s “professional bigot” Eugene Delgaudio has raised slanderous hate speech against GLBT people to such an overwrought comic art form that many fail to take him seriously, believing one of his 2005 “fundraising letters” to be an April Fool’s joke (read the letter here).

The purpose of hate crimes and terrorism is to control behavior through fear. Hate crimes perpetrated against GLBT people send the message “how dare you be visible; how dare you speak.” There is a natural tension between the need to directly confront the violent rhetoric that functions as a constant threat, and the other response identified by Feldman as “one of a refusal to be intimidated by threats and a desire to show that one is not going to be silenced by right-wingers no matter how extreme they sound.”

The logic is a reasonable one: “If we alter our behavior, the terrorists win.” However, an adamant refusal to be intimidated and silenced does not require us to pretend that such threats are no big deal. Frankly, acknowledging the danger we are threatened with, and affirming our commitment to equality and justice for all in the face of that danger is a much stronger position to take than is pretending there’s nothing to be afraid of. That is exactly what one of our local Unitarian Universalist congregations has done in this excellent letter to the editor, in part:

Given the threat from such people, it would be tempting to reduce our advocacy on controversial issues, adopt more hostile attitudes toward those whose views differ from our own, or even to restrict access to our church for the sake of physical security. We will, of course, do none of these things.

As was the case when Unitarian Universalists faced threats during the civil rights movement, we will view this attack as a reminder of how much the world needs our continued commitment to equality. Drawing on the Christian tradition, one of many religious sources from which we derive wisdom and inspiration, we will continue to love our neighbors as ourselves and to do unto others as we would have them do unto us.

Feldman speaks of “a fundamental collapse in the civic body.”

When political debate is taken over by violent language and logic, the effect it has on the public sphere is poisonous and debilitating. Conversation itself shuts down, opening up the door for the return of a pre-modern form of politics antithetical to the free and open exchange of ideas through words.

…if we the civic body is undermined–in particular if the kind of conversation running the civic body changes from a free and open exchange of ideas and information to one marked by violent rhetoric, violent ideas, and violent behavior.

When the dominant conversation in the civic body shifts from pragmatism to violence, the state of American democracy shifts, too. Rather than turning to civic space to communicate ideas, learn information, and work collectively to solve problems, a civic body marked by violent rhetoric becomes an arena driven by the need to vent frustration, enforce opinion, and eliminate rivals.

It’s hard to argue otherwise. We see evidence of the collapse in the civic body all around us in the state of political discourse. Attempts to engage in reasoned debate on some blogs quickly attract name-calling and abusive language aimed at shutting people up; even veiled – and not so veiled – threats. The danger is that such thinking – and by logical extension, behavior – becomes normalized. It is incumbent upon all of us to never allow that to happen. The stakes are very high.

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