Citizens take Delgaudio investigation into their own hands

We know that Donna Mateer, former aide to Supervisor Eugene Delgaudio, provided a package of documents to Board Chairman Scott York – at his request – information that supports her allegations of Mr. Delgaudio’s improper fundraising, misuse of office, and nasty behavior. And we know that Mr. York then proceeded to do absolutely nothing with the information for approximately six months, only admitting that he had it once that fact was exposed by the Washington Post. What did the package contain?

For some reason, Mr. York doesn’t want that question answered.

This morning, the newly formed Real Advocate Political Action Committee had to file a court petition to force his compliance with a Freedom of Information Act demand submitted by Elizabeth Miller. I sadly note the fact that the board is comprised entirely of fellow members of Mr. Delgaudio’s political party, and that this looks bad.

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“Nellie” Delgaudio getting nervouser

We are not children anymore, and we refuse to be bullied.

That was Brian Edwards speaking to the press a few months ago about the theft and defilement of his favorite engagement photo for use in an anti-gay political mailer.

Today, the Southern Poverty Law Center filed a federal lawsuit against Eugene Delgaudio’s hate group “Public Advocate of the United States” on Edwards’ behalf, along with his husband Tom Privitere and their photographer Kristina Hill. “We are going to take back the beautiful moment in our lives that was hijacked by a hate group,” Edwards said during a telephone press briefing on the lawsuit. Public Advocate could easily have “legally obtained a generic photo” of a same sex couple for its purpose instead of “stealing and destroying my work,” added Hill. The lawsuit follows Delgaudio’s failure to respond to a July 11 cease-and-desist letter sent by the SPLC on behalf of the plaintiffs.

And yesterday, Caitlin Gibson of the Washington Post published a long-awaited exposé of Delgaudio’s conduct in the office of Sterling Supervisor. It contains compelling evidence that he habitually uses county staff and resources to raise money for his own reelection campaign and for Public Advocate. One former aide, Donna Mateer, told Gibson that she was instructed to spend all of her time setting up fundraising meetings with potential donors, and that she was placed under the direct supervision of Delgaudio’s Public Advocate office manager, Hannah Scoggins. Other former aides stated that they quit after being repeatedly instructed to engage in improper political activity, that they were instructed to enroll in classes on fundraising and online activism paid for by Public Advocate, and that they have been questioned by the FBI about activities in the county office and at Public Advocate. Mateer also alleged that Delgaudio asked about her religious and political views as a condition of employment, and that he often engaged in racist and anti-gay tirades in the office as well as berating his aides.

Deliberately misspelling his own URL sends the message to Loudoun: "I'm just a dumb, harmless clown, you shouldn't take my hate group seriously."

As shocking in some ways as these allegations are, the knowledge that there really is no boundary between the Sterling Supervisor office and Public Advocate is nothing new. Not too long ago, Pariahdog described Eugene Delgaudio as a “Nervous Nellie,” blowing up at reporters who asked him to explain how someone else’s copyrighted image ended up on his hate mailers. We are just beginning, I think, to see the extent of what he’s so nervous about.

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Doubling down on Special Rights

Is this what happens when a sick ideology passes into its embarrassing and marginalized stage? A triumvirate of comically artless Special Rights entitlement:

1) This one is from an Australian legislator, and speaks for itself:

Senate President John Hogg told the chamber he had a deep-seated belief that marriage was between a man and woman.

“To decry my views is to seek to discriminate against me,” he said.

2) Unlike Rob Tisinai, I found this one just too gloriously stupid to even be angry with. In this Very Earnest Essay about how gracious he is to allow us to exist, the author repeatedly “pauses to praise his own wondrous tolerance” while patiently explaining to us our “debt of reciprocity.” Must read to appreciate.

3) Finally, a Loudoun version, obtained via a Freedom of Information Act request for Mr. Delgaudio’s email correspondance. There is much more serious stuff forthcoming from this remarkable trove of material, some of which was reported yesterday by the Washington Post; this one is just for the giggles. Although this gentleman no doubt deserves to be publicly embarrassed, that doesn’t mean his child does, hence I am obscuring his name at this time. The confused fellow sent the following to Mr. Delgaudio’s “personal” email address:

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“When children have married parents”

Liz points out here that the “marriage” section of the draft GOP Party Platform sounds just like an argument in favor of marriage equality from the Prop 8 trial transcript. Now, from the anti-marriage group “Minnesotans for Marriage,” comes the video below. Can you find anything in this video that can be construed as an argument against the children of same sex couples having married parents? Do they even listen to themselves? h/t Box Turtle Bulletin.

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GOP FAIL

From the newly approved draft Republican Party Platform:

Marriage

The Institution of marriage is the foundation of civil society. Its success as an institution will determine our success as a nation. It has been proven by both experience and endless social science studies that marriage is best for children. Children raised in intact married families are more likely to attend college, and are physically and emotionally healthier, are less likely to use drugs or alcohol, are less like to to engage in crime, and are less likely to get pregnant outside of marriage. The success of marriage directly impacts the economic wellbeing of individuals. Furthermore, the future of marriage affects freedom. The lack of family formation not only leads to more government costs, but also more government control over the lives of its citizens in all facets. We recognize and honor the courageous efforts of those who bear the many burdens of parenting alone..

Yes, yes, and yes! Intact married families (even those whose married status isn’t completely honored – it’s that powerful a social institution) provide children with the stability and safety they need to thrive, and provide the marriage partners with not only the psychological benefits of romantic partnership but with the security of knowing they will take care of each other in times of need and not have to rely as much on other family members or the public sector.

Then, the subcommittee goes off the rails and contradicts everything they just said:
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Family Research Council doesn’t want your sympathy

“We have been the victims of violence long enough to know that violence is not the way to resolve political disagreements.” – Washington Blade editorial

Within hours of Wednesday’s reported shooting inside the DC headquarters of the Family Research Council, the leaders of forty LGBT civil rights organizations had issued a joint statement expressing unequivocal condemnation of the shooter’s actions and support for the heroic security guard who prevented further bloodshed, his family, and his co-workers.

Multiple similar statements and heartfelt prayers for all who were affected followed from others in the LGBT and allied community. There was near universal agreement that violence is never an appropriate response to disagreement, and there seemed to be a collective moment of recognition that we all share a common humanity however passionately we may disagree with or feel harmed by one another. Focus on the Family president Jim Daly struck a tone that some LGBT leaders found surprising, saying in part “No person or group of any ideological stripe – left, right or center — should have to fear physical violence for passionately articulating and acting on their deeply help convictions in the realm of public policy. That is the very definition of terrorism.”

Yes, it is. So it’s especially disappointing that the anti-gay activist community, by and large, chose not to receive this outpouring of sympathy in the spirit in which it was given. Continue reading

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A note of appreciation

Just wanted to express a quick word of congratulations to all the folks who sat for an hour or more yesterday with their cars idling so they could buy a chicken sandwich. I understand that that anti-gay chicken restaurant – which is now how it will be known – posted record sales for the day! That sure was a stunning victory, wasn’t it? In fact, it might even be a miracle!

Deliberately misspelling his own URL sends the message to Loudoun: "I'm just a dumb, harmless clown, you shouldn't take my hate group seriously." Or maybe that should be "my hat group."

What else could possibly explain the fact that former governor and presidential candidate Mike Huckabee, plus many, many anti-gay advocacy groups, utilized the media tools and church leaders at their disposal to call upon you to go forth and buy a chicken sandwich, and you did it?

Are you going to do it again tomorrow? I hope so, because the thought of you sitting in your car for an hour waiting to buy a chicken sandwich makes me laugh, in much the same way that thinking of you sending an urgent donation of $5, $10, or $25 to “Public Advocat” because it told you that “the Radical Homosexual Lobby has legalized sodomy and bestiality in the military!” and that “they actually consider the ‘right to violate animals sexually’ a basic human necessity”* makes me laugh.

Onward, you brave, brave, selfless warriors, you.

*Actual language from a January, 2012 fundraising letter, selected at random.

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