Massachusetts is closer

Closer than California, although the west coast certainly has its charms as a wedding destination.

On July 29, the Massachusetts House agreed with the state Senate, voting 119 to 36 to repeal a 1913 law (“a shameful vestige from another wrong-headed time of denying marriage to interracial couples”) that prevents out of state couples from marrying in Massachusetts if their marriages would not be legal in their home states. Governor Deval Patrick has said he will sign the repeal.

Last June, the Massachusetts Legislature defeated (by 151 to 45) a proposed state constitutional amendment intended to eliminate the constitutional right to marriage equality for all couples.

The simple fact is, the sky isn’t falling because the partnerships of loving, committed same sex couples are being recognized and celebrated in the public square. The sky won’t fall in Virginia any more than it has in Massachusetts, or in any of the other jurisdictions where common sense and simple humanity has prevailed.

And that outcome is inevitable. I say this with rapidly shrinking empathy for those who feel compelled to stop it, in the wake of murders and maimings in Tennessee by a man goaded into violence by violent rhetoric – rhetoric which is escalated to a call for armed insurrection in this absurd document by science fiction author and radical Mormon Orson Scott Card. Card has a long history of inflammatory anti-gay writing; see for example his uninformed and frankly loopy essay from 1999 arguing for the preservation of “laws against homosexual behavior.”

Near the end of a rambling, illogical dissertation in which he seems to believe that he and those like him are being somehow rendered unable to “raise each generation” to “continue civilization,” he makes this remarkable statement:

[W]hen government is the enemy of marriage, then the people who are actually creating successful marriages have no choice but to change governments, by whatever means is made possible or necessary

…How long before married people answer the dictators thus: Regardless of law, marriage has only one definition, and any government that attempts to change it is my mortal enemy. I will act to destroy that government and bring it down, so it can be replaced with a government that will respect and support marriage, and help me raise my children in a society where they will expect to marry in their turn. [Emphases added]

Regardless of law? I suppose that would apply to law whether interpreted by a court, enacted by the elected representatives of the people, or voted on by the people themselves. The “end of democracy,” indeed. Where’s that terrorist watch list when you need it?

There is much, much more to be said about this bizarre screed, but I see that Yonmei at Feminist SF has already thoroughly and most entertainingly said it. I especially appreciated her riff on what Card’s writing reveals about his own marriage. Poor Mrs. Card.

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More inconvenient truth

People who rely on the simplistic formulation of “male and female” as the mutually exclusive “complementary halves of humanity” to justify their anti-gay and anti-transgender bias have yet another inconvenient news item to ignore.

It seems that the organizers of the Beijing Olympics are preparing a “sex-determination laboratory” for those athletes deemed “suspect.” This is nothing new; as discussed in the New York Times, such “testing” has been a part of the Games since the Cold War 1960s, when the rhetoric of the day accused Eastern Bloc countries of entering male athletes in women’s competitions to gain unfair advantage. (Historical footnote: The only such incident actually on record was in 1936, when the Nazi party allegedly forced a male athlete to compete as a woman.)

The initial gender “test” was to have all female athletes “parade nude before a panel of doctors.” (This would be an example of the even more comically simple-minded “Johnson/No-Johnson” test.) For reasons left intriguingly unexplored by the New York Times, “at the 1968 Olympics in Mexico City, officials switched to a chromosomal test.” This also proved to be problematic.

The practice came under increasing criticism in the 1990s by doctors, scientists and athletes who argued that the tests were not just invasive, but were also bad science. During the 1996 Atlanta Games, eight athletes failed the test, but all were later cleared of suspicion because it was determined that they had a birth defect that did not give them an unfair advantage.

“It was an unethical, unscientific and discriminatory practice,” said Arne Ljungqvist, the chairman of the International Olympic Committee’s medical commission and one of the most outspoken critics of the testing.

As I recall, one of the several women in the early 90’s who were discovered – much to their surprise – to have a Y chromosome, was immediately served with divorce papers by her husband. Isn’t that nice? So much for the sanctity of marriage. At any rate, we see that women with an XY, or other chromosomal pattern, are considered to be female for the purposes of Olympic competition. So, what is it that makes them women? We all learned the chromosome rule in high school biology; lawmakers in some states have even introduced legislation using it to define legal sex (typically as a means to oppose marriage equality). Our “sex determination laboratory” personnel would seem to be wading into some interesting territory.

Although the verification test has changed to adapt to new scientific understandings about gender – athletes are now evaluated by an endocrinologist, gynecologist, a geneticist and a psychologist – critics say the test is based on the false idea that someone’s sex is a cut-and-dried issue.

“It’s very difficult to define what is a man and what is a woman at this point,” said Christine McGinn, a plastic surgeon who specializes in transgender medicine.

Because of a range of genetic conditions, people who look like women may have a Y chromosome, while people who look like men may not, she said. Many times, the people do not learn of the defects until they reach adulthood. “It gets really complicated very quickly,” McGinn said.

I have a feeling that “the false idea that someone’s sex is a cut-and-dried issue” is going to be a difficult pill for some people to swallow – but attempts to make it a cut-and-dried issue never end up doing anything except showing that to be a false idea. Contrary to popular assumptions, there is no single biological marker in human beings that can be used without exception to determine sex. The requirement here for the purpose of Olympic eligibility – of deciding what does or does not make a person female – is one that most people have never had occasion to think about. The exercise may provide some very helpful, if uncomfortable, public education.

As noted, only “some” women will be subject to this examination. The article doesn’t shed any light on what the criteria will be for identifying an individual athlete as “suspect.”

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We can’t *imagine* how that happened

Gosh, we just need to lighten up, don’t we? You can click on the image to read it, or I can just save you the trouble. It says, under “Liberal Hunting Permit”:

“No Bag Limit – Tagging Not Required. May be used while under the influence of Alcohol. May be used to Hunt Liberals at Gay Pride Parades, Democrat Conventions, Union Rallys, Handgun Control Meetings, News Media Association, Lesbian Luncheons and Hollywood Functions MAY HUNT DAY OR NIGHT WITH OR WITHOUT DOGS”

Now, clearly, this is just another example of “the most benign humor,” as one of the commenters over at the Prison Fellowship Ministries blog puts it. See, over there they are talking about how funny and silly it is for anyone to be offended by that Snickers ad that was pulled – this would be the one in which Mr. T mock-executes a race walker for failing to “run like a real man.”

Title: Speedwalker
Marketer: Snickers

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Agency: AMV BBDO, London

Snickers 'Speedwalker' spot
In this Snickers spot, a butt-wiggling race walker is just too effeminate for Mr. T’s liking.

This is “just a silly ad,” according to the Chuck Colson crowd, representing merely one of those “escapist little worlds that don’t actually exist,” such as ads where “shirt stains talk to the person wearing the shirt.”

Because, as everyone well knows, the notion of an effeminate man actually being murdered by an enraged homophobe is as fantastical as the notion of a talking shirt stain.

Likewise, it’s “just entertainment” when Ann Coulter says that “liberals” should be beaten with baseball bats, when Dick Morris calls “liberals” traitors who should be decapitated, when Ken Hutcherson says that, were he to encounter an effeminate man, he would “rip off his arm and beat him with the wet end,” and when Jimmy Swaggart says about any man who might look at him with romantic interest, “I’m going to kill him and tell God he died.”

Here’s Wayne Besen discussing all this hilarity in the context of the unhappy Tennessee shooter:

The far right’s dirty little secret is that they depend on the threat of violence to retard the advancement of the GLBT movement. Without the fear of physical attack, the number of people who are out of the closet would quickly multiply. Gay couples would hold hands in every city in the nation. On each block, from San Francisco to San Antonio, gay and lesbian people would be visibly present.

Each day, all but the bravest GLBT people make subtle or even significant adjustments to remain safe. Some dress a little blander in order to blend in. A number of gay men talk a bit deeper so they won’t arouse suspicion. Some lesbians apply make up so they won’t get beaten up. And, most loving couples act like buddies so they won’t get bashed.

We tell ourselves comforting lies, such as “we don’t like public displays of affection,” to justify pushing a partner’s hand away at a romantic moment. But, the reality is, even the most confident and brave among us have something to fear.

Apologists for the status quo of our cultural discourse are busily tripping over each other to declare the unfortunate Mr. Adkisson simply a “nut job” with nothing – nothing – to do with them and their spewing of hate.

We live in a society filled with violently homophobic messages and images, yet the perpetrators – both religious and secular – feign innocence and say they can’t imagine how anti-gay hate crimes occur.

Besen goes on to call out the outrageous hypocrisy of those who claim that even slightly gay-positive images or ideas “promote homosexuality,” and at the same time vehemently deny that their own vicious statements and “jokes” could possibly have any material outcome. How is it that something like a student play about tolerance, or the presence of a safe space for GLBT youth can be thought of as having the amazing power to actually change peoples’ sexual orientation; but a constant barrage of ugly, dehumanizing messages about GLBT people couldn’t possibly incite a violent outburst such as the one we saw in Knoxville – and that takes the life of a transgender person every single month?

Those who exhibit this hypocrisy need to be exposed each and every time they open their foul mouths. Now let’s all review the useful suggestion from our “conservative” friend: Make sure you are armed, just in case there is a terrorist attack by one of the “nut jobs” who has been whipped into a frenzy by all this “benign humor.” Won’t it be fun for them to try to guess which “soft target” is really packin’ heat?

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Blaming the Victim, Part xx…

We note, with a certain degree of awe for his chutzpah, that our new commenter Greg has attempted to make the attack on the Tennessee Valley Unitarian Universalist Church about the failure of the congregants to adequately arm themselves before attending service.

Isn’t it amazing? Consider: Here we have an activist who supports and promotes a local politician who regularly churns out nuggets of hate speech like this:

“Forcing the Boy Scouts to hire homosexuals is the same as being an accessory to the rape of hundreds of boys.”

Understand that there is an entire industry – a good portion of it based in Loudoun County – devoted to producing a constant diet of such ideas. When the consumers of this diet are told over and over that “liberals,” or gay people, or transgender people, or whoever is the target of the moment, are a threat to children, or are destroying the world and must be stopped, it creates what criminologists call a scapegoat mentality. Sooner or later a mentally unbalanced, violence-prone individual like the shooter in this case is going to take those ideas to heart. The only surprising thing is that it hasn’t happened more often.

So – this poor manipulated man finally does what, to his damaged mind, he has been called on to do by these “truth-tellers” like Michael Savage, Bill O’Reilly and Sean Hannity.

“This is not just violence in a vacuum,” says Brian Levin, professor of criminal justice and director of the Study of Hate and Extremism at California State University, San Bernardino. “When they perceive themselves to have played by the rules, they will lash out indiscriminately not just at innocent people, but innocent people who symbolize what they believe has done them wrong.”

I imagine we’ll be hearing more about Mr. Adkisson’s reading list – but given what we know, can there be any doubt that, if he had been living in Loudoun, he would have been Eugene Delgaudio’s Number 1 fan, hanging on every scapegoating word? Let me answer that – no.

That’s quite a trick – promoting the creation of a deranged hunter, then blaming the hunted for failing to adequately protect themselves from that creation.

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Apparent hate crime against inclusive Knoxville church

Update: The Unitarian Universalists of Sterling will hold a prayer vigil on Monday evening, July 28, at 7:00 to mourn the tragic injuries and loss of life at the Tennessee Valley Unitarian Church. The public is invited.

The pastor of the Tennessee Valley Unitarian Universalist Church, Rev. Chris Buice, preached at UUSterling on April 13, 2008 as a guest minister. He is the step-brother of a member of UUS.

Map to Unitarian Universalists of Sterling

A heavily armed man opened fire during services at Tennessee Valley Unitarian Universalist Church yesterday, killing two people and wounding seven more. Five of the wounded are still hospitalized in critical or serious condition. Several congregants, one of whom was an usher who was killed shielding others from a shotgun blast, tackled the man and subdued him until police arrived.

Congregants had speculated on the man’s motives yesterday, noting that the church has taken a public stand on welcoming GLBT people. TVUUC recently posted a sign reading “Gays Welcome,” hosts a coffeehouse for GLBT youth, and identifies “Increase congregational participation in human rights programs for gay/lesbian/transgendered persons” as a goal of the church’s long range plan.

Yesterday, police would not comment on the gunman’s motives. This morning, Knoxville police chief Sterling Owen revealed at a press conference that a four-page manifesto was found in the man’s car.

A man who shot and killed two parishioners during a children’s play at a Tennessee church yesterday attacked the congregation because of its outspoken socially liberal and gay-friendly beliefs, police said.

The 58-year-old unemployed engineer accused in the Sunday morning attack at the Tennessee Valley Unitarian Universalist Church, was driven to bloodshed in part by his “stated hatred for the liberal movement” as well as his hatred for gays, said Knoxville, Tennessee, police chief Sterling Owen. “We’re certainly investigating it as a hate crime.”

Other churches that have taken stands for social justice are responding in love and in acknowledgement of the evil sometimes attracted by their witness. Said Maddie Kertay, president of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Chattanooga board of trustees:

“We will not become a fortress or a monument of hate. We are going to enter into this time with a lot of love in our hearts and yet consider what we need to do to keep everybody in our church safe.”

The Rev. Don Prange, pastor of the Open and Affirming St. James United Church of Christ (which just last month hosted the emma’s revolution concert with Equality Loudoun) says that the attack

ought to help us realize that the words of Jesus about ‘taking up our own cross’ in following his leadership are not just rhetoric. Whatever the ultimate story in this situation turns out to be, I would hope that we are all feeling a deep sense of solidarity with our sisters and brothers of this UUA congregation in Knoxville for their own spirit of being ‘open and affirming’.

Then there’s this:

An FBI official said federal law enforcement officials were investigating whether to prosecute Adkisson for forcibly preventing the free expression of worship, a federal civil rights violation.

Tell me again – who is it that’s trying to silence religious speech? Anyone guilty of parroting the slanderous American Family Association assault on our community, or of facilitating such willful false witness, needs to feel the full weight of their shame. You are sickening.

Love is the spirit of this church and service is its law. This is our great covenent; to dwell together in peace, to seek the truth in love, and to help one another.

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Tennessee Valley Unitarian Universalist Church, and the families and loved ones of the victims. May they, and all of us, strengthen each other.

Statement from the Anti-Violence Project of Equality Virginia – Loving people lost their lives in this hate motivated attack and the Knoxville community will be recovering from this malicious act of violence for some time to come. Please join us in sending your thoughts to this community and reaffirming your commitment to building a world without violence. Contact your local congregations to find out how your community can come together at this time.

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Conservative enough?

Is discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation really a “conservative” value? Not according to Ward Connerly, whom one would be hard-pressed to argue is not conservative enough. He opposes the current effort to deface the California state constitution with anti-gay prejudice; in this interview, mostly about his staunch opposition to affirmative action, Connerly explains his support for GLBT equality:

The government shouldn’t be making distinctions about people on the basis of what they do in the privacy of their bedrooms. And those within my party that try to inject the government into that, they’re not the conservative, I’m the conservative. I’m saying, keep government small, keep government out of people’s personal lives. If you’re going to give benefits to people who happen to be straight, give the same benefits to people who are gay. That to me was a very easy call.

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Cut to the curious kerfuffle over at the Too Conservative compound. Blogger Loudoun Insider wrote a nice rah-rah post a few days ago, about recent growth of the Loudoun County Republican Committee and how the new, improved leadership is making everyone feel welcome. If you follow local politics, you’ll know that there has been sharp dissension in the LCRC over the last few years, with a lot of moderate Republicans either resigning or being refused membership. Although much of the displeasure was over development and land use issues, a good deal of it was also due to the dominance of an extreme “social conservative” faction headed by former Delegate Dick Black.

It was this faction, closely associated with Patrick Henry College, that pushed for a resolution demanding that the Supreme Court reverse its decision in Lawrence v Texas, and turned what was advertised as an informational meeting into a noisy circus of gay-bashing that was as embarrassing as it was frightening. Equality Loudoun was founded soon afterwards.

Even at that meeting there were a few courageous individuals who spoke up, but clearly this was not a safe or welcoming committee for openly GLBT Republicans. We would be delighted by evidence that this has changed, and that our Republican members can fully participate in their chosen political party at the local level. I have personally lobbied for such participation with individuals, but given the atrocious behavior of some of the candidates and LCRC officials, some serious wariness is to be expected.

So, here was a nice post about how different things are now, and what happened? The anti-gay trolls showed up and peed all over it. As I said in the comments, it’s not a good sign that an LCRC District chair, a person assigned to do outreach in the community and to be a public face of the party, launches hostile, sneering attacks on Equality Loudoun any time an issue of GLBT equality is raised. Although it’s heartening to see so many other commenters repudiating this garbage, a statement by party leadership that denigrating attacks on a segment of the community does not represent the kind of inclusive committee they are interested in building would go a long way toward changing the image of the LCRC. Their silence gives the impression that the new leadership approves of such conduct just as much as the old leadership did.

If this sort of hostility is still considered to be “conservative” by those steering this ship, they need to think again. Please. The people spouting it are part of a movement that is now so far outside the mainstream of American society that they have to call for a boycott of McDonald’s. I don’t think they have much of a future to offer to any political party.

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We the people, one human family

See more photos from Equality Loudoun’s fourth year of participation in the Leesburg 4th of July Parade here. Thank you to the folks who make this happen every year – it has really made a difference in this community.

We got an overwhelmingly positive response along the route – even more so than usual. Is this because the rainbow symbol was more prominent? We’ve heard in past years from spectators who said that they liked our message, but couldn’t immediately figure out who we were.

We also note, with amusement, that #1 Fan Barbara Curtis felt the need to publish another anti-gay screed the day before the parade, although she refrained from attacking us by name this time. The sad thing is that when she sticks with topics that she knows about, Barbara is actually pretty smart and engaging; her knowledge of early childhood education would be helpful to parents of all orientations. Ironically, she has also passionately advocated for a little kid whose classmates were encouraged to bully and ridicule him by his teacher; it’s not as if Barbara is lacking compassion for people who were created to be different from the majority. It’s too bad that she takes something good and poisons it with her irrational anti-gay prejudice.

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